mopar crazy Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 What did your H do to prove to you how sorry he was for his part of the A? What did he say or do to show how sorry he was? My H and I were still seperated after his A w/ the exOW. We lived in different towns so we would email, IM, and talk on the phone a lot. He gave me cards, flowers, and poems and just did little things like help around the house more to show that he was sorry. While on my computer 2day I found a poem he emailed me and just wanted to share it. MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY I KNOW I DON’T ALWAYS TELL YOU, OR SHOW MY LOVE FOR YOU EVERY DAY. BUT KNOW DEEP DOWN FROM MY HEART, I LOVE YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY. WE’VE BEEN THROUGH A LOT TOGETHER, AND THE FUTURE HOLDS SO MUCH MORE. ITS AS BIG AS THE SKY ABOVE US, AND LIKE TWO BIRDS INTO IT WE WILL SOAR. I KNOW WHAT I’VE DONE HAS HURT YOU, I WOULD TAKE IT ALL AWAY TO START AGAIN. I’VE ASKED YOU FOR YOUR FORGIVENESS, AND I’VE PRAYED TO GOD TO FORGIVE MY SIN. I TOOK YOU AS MY WIFE AND FRIEND, AND SOMEWHERE ALONG THE WAY. I FORGOT TO TREAT YOU LIKE THE QUEEN YOU ARE, AND THIS HURTS ME MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY. BUT I WANT TO START US OVER, AND FIND THE LOVE WE BOTH DO SHARE. BECAUSE MY LOVE FOR YOU IS WORTH SAVING, AND ABOUT YOU I WILL ALWAYS CARE. TOGETHER WE SHALL GROW AGAIN, AND SHARE IN EACH OUR LOVE.. THE ROAD WE TAKE WILL HAVE MANY BUMPS, BUT WE WILL BE GUIDED BY GOD ABOVE. I WANT YOU TO NEVER FORGET, THAT I APPRECIATE ALL THAT YOU DO. AND I WILL DO A BETTER JOB OF SHOWING YOU THAT, AND PROVING THAT I LOVE YOU. SO AS WE START ALL OVER, LET US NOT FORGET EACH DAY. THE FEELINGS WE HAVE FOR EACH OTHER, ARE MORE THAN WORDS COULD SAY. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART, TODAY, TOMORROW, AND FOREVER. YOUR LOVING HUSBAND Link to post Share on other sites
Summerday Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Sounds like he is very sorry, and truly means it. I hope your giving him a chance.. :-) Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted August 22, 2005 Share Posted August 22, 2005 Actions speak louder than words, but in this case the words need to be heard and felt, emotionally not only visually. I wish you the best and that poem is very moving. Read DazednConfused's thread called My wife made a stupid mistake (you might have to dig afew pages in this section to find it) it is a long read, but well worth it. It's his ups and down as a BS and tells what his wife had done to fix things between them. Link to post Share on other sites
StillHurtin Posted August 23, 2005 Share Posted August 23, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup Actions speak louder than words, but in this case the words need to be heard and felt, emotionally not only visually. I wish you the best and that poem is very moving. Read DazednConfused's thread called My wife made a stupid mistake (you might have to dig afew pages in this section to find it) it is a long read, but well worth it. It's his ups and down as a BS and tells what his wife had done to fix things between them. Thanks WWIU, and I agree, actions do speak louder than words. By the way, I changed my screen name. It use to be StillHurtin. I just figured it was time to move on from that screen name b/c it was so close to the time of the A and I was still hurting. I have healed a lot since I started posting here at LS so I just don't think StillHurtin really applied to me anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mopar crazy Posted August 23, 2005 Author Share Posted August 23, 2005 Originally posted by StillHurtin Thanks WWIU, and I agree, actions do speak louder than words. By the way, I changed my screen name. It use to be StillHurtin. I just figured it was time to move on from that screen name b/c it was so close to the time of the A and I was still hurting. I have healed a lot since I started posting here at LS so I just don't think StillHurtin really applied to me anymore. Opppss, sorry WWIU, forgot to log off that account onto my new one. Link to post Share on other sites
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