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Old 27th February 2019, 9:48 PM   #46
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No one is suggesting sex isn't simple.

The choice to remain with someone so simply inclined is always complicated.
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Old 28th February 2019, 10:33 AM   #47
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Even now he tells me he was sexually satisfied. I'm confused.
It's fallacy to believe that spouses cheat (esp men) because they aren't getting it at home. Before my wife's affair, we were shagging like rabbits, even pulling over on the side of the road. A month later she was shagging her co-worker, not me. Don't get yourself hung up on this aspect of his affair.
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Old 28th February 2019, 2:04 PM   #48
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..a clear sign that the said man is a 'beta' to her...who is more deserving of seks, the fiance who wants to marry you or the ONS you met at the bar..
The thing is, while the logic of these 'beta' theories is carefully assembled and flows nicely - the experience of human psychology does not.

It takes many long hours of reading to arrive at that logic, and only a few minutes to jump in bed. It was sex, not a revolution.
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Old 28th February 2019, 2:04 PM   #49
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People cheat normally because they want the "new" and all the feelings that go with that. The fact that your husband had a "new" wife and still cheated is very telling about what you can expect for your future. I think the spouse should be told when cheated on because otherwise it is selfish. The betrayed spouse has a right to decide if they want to stay with a person who broke their vows.
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