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Old 30th October 2017, 9:00 PM   #31
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I dunno, something about this scenario doesn't sound right.... You need to make sure those pics are real, for one. Could your wife be trying to scam you by setting you up for something and showing you a bunch of photoshopped pictures as 'proof'? Be very careful, friend. It is not the limburger cheese that is stinking up the place...
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Old 30th October 2017, 9:23 PM   #32
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I dunno, something about this scenario doesn't sound right....
The poster hasn't posted anything since the first post. I don't think "he" is coming back... or was ever real.
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Old 31st October 2017, 3:48 PM   #33
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There's an awful lot of unnecessary potentially identifying information in theOP.
'Love is giving someone the power to destroy you, but trusting them not to'
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Old 31st October 2017, 4:52 PM   #34
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DNA test the kids.

Get STD tested.

See lawyer after getting copies of everything.

Burn her damn wedding dress if she still has it. I would dispose of all the wedding pictures as well.

This has never been a true marriage between the two of you. You got all the hardship in the marriage and the OM got all the fun out of your wife.
This ^^^^

They may not be your kids!

You don't even know who your wife is - she's been a liar the whole marriage and has stolen nearly 20 years of your life!

Just divorce her! She doesn't deserve you.

She told you so you would amicably divorce her - hopefully she pays you spousal support!
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Old 31st October 2017, 5:13 PM   #35
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It seems to me that she doesn’t have much respect for either man. Twenty year affair. Sex with him in your house. Multiple pictures of him wearing women’s clothes and on the toilet. And the gall to think everybody’s going to live together in one big happy family. After he tells his wife who she obviously doesn’t respect either.

She’s really smug and sure of herself, isn’t she?

Maybe she has a reason to be. Maybe she has everything under control because she’s knows both men are weak and lame.

She could be right.

We’ll see ....
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