LongmontJon Posted July 4, 2006 Share Posted July 4, 2006 I am getting married in less than 18 days. My fiance and I just moved into our first apartment together three weeks ago, relatively argument free. But today, we have been at each other's throats, exposing each others flaws, bitching about how one treats the other, bringing up past greivances, etc etc. I assume this is normal, as there is an expression for what happens. Nonetheless, it still hurts like hell. Are there any other married folk that have gone through this that have some advice? We love each other deeply, but today has been like being dragged through an acre of rusty barbed wire. Whats the best way out of this conundrum? Should I do anything to help salve these new wounds, or just hope that is passes as time goes on? I want to be romantic, but I feel like this new resentment between us makes that difficult if not impossible. Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted July 4, 2006 Share Posted July 4, 2006 I think you should be having a long talk with him about what you both think this means and how you feel about it. Link to post Share on other sites
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