Guest Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 my husband wants me to be with other men to turn him on and i find that very hard as i only find him attractive i know if i dont he will leave and pursue someone else what should i do Link to post Share on other sites
EndoftheRope Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 Let him go, then. Just to make sure I have this right-- he wants you to get it on with other men while he watches? You've told him you don't want to and wouldn't feel comfortable and he's pushing you to do it anyway? That's way past wrong. If you give in to this, you will most likely feel used, dirty, and disgusted with yourself. When he wants the next thing, you will either continue to do things for him that make you feel that way, or finally have enough and in the end leave him (or let him leave you) anyway. Better now than after you've done things like that, that you don't want to do. Link to post Share on other sites
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