Lost over 100lbs but no change in my H.

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Let me start here. I have been with my H for 6 1\2 years now. When I met him I was about 170 to 180lbs. Had a baby 2 years later and went up to 250lbs. Now I am 135, fit in a size 6 and I look hot. I did it all on my own. I get looks like have never gotton before and I love it. I have so meny sexy things to wear now. I feel so good about myself. But my H still looks at me them same. He does hold me more when we are out and about, but thats about it. When I ask him if he like the way I look he says "I love the way you look." And that all i get. What am I doing wrong?

And he also looks at porn online. He hops online when I leave for work. Then he covers it up. I have been very open when it comes to looking at porn and trying new things. When we have s@x, it is great. I have been dealing with this for 3 or so years. And now I look great. Why won't he stop and why does he still look at me the same way? I have told him how I felt and he says he will stoped but has not stoped. People say. "Wouldn't you have him look at porn then have another woman." He may not be with another woman but he still getting off online and not looking at me the way he is looking at woman online. I have worked so hard to look the way I do. I understand that people need to masturbate or what to. Thats fine but what about me. What about the way I feel? What about all the hard work I put into looking the way. I did it for myself and him. I need someones help.