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Old 11th January 2019, 9:08 PM   #31
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I have been diagnosed with OCD. My illness manifests itself with cleaning, being a perfectionist, and fixations.

I am neurotic.

I hold grudges.

I can be cold at times.

I am Eeyore.
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Old 11th January 2019, 10:23 PM   #32
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I have a fast and hot Irish temper.

I am a bed hog...and blanket hog. And my husband says I snore if I have had wine.

I am a horrible house keeper...I hate cleaning. Even as a stay at home Mom I hated it. (And hired help to do it)

I have the attention span of a goldfish sometimes. I get easily distracted.


Thankfully, he loves me despite these faults. LOL
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Old 12th January 2019, 10:06 PM   #33
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"So...Why Are You Hard To Live With?"

Because I wont let a women live with me. She has to have her own place.
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Old 13th January 2019, 11:33 AM   #34
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I am a 'neat freak' I can't stand mess and clutter


When I ask for something do be done (like mess picked up) I expect it to be done that day. (if I wanted it done next week, I would have asked next week)


If anyone makes a sandwich/snack, I expect them to wash the utensils and put them away away



I can't stand someone having a dump and then not opening the window in the bathroom ( I don't want my nostrils assailed by a mushroom cloud of miasma) and ffs clean up the bog after you, it doesn't take long.



There is no excuse for poor hygiene - ever


I need time alone sometimes (comes from years of living alone)


I need my sleep. If you want to go out late for a few beers then I'll be in the spare room as I don't want to hear you snoring like a buzz-saw
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Old 13th January 2019, 3:15 PM   #35
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I can't stand someone having a dump and then not opening the window in the bathroom ( I don't want my nostrils assailed by a mushroom cloud of miasma) and ffs clean up the

Arieswoman, LMAO, I always say you Brits have a way with words. I am going to have to add ‘mushroom cloud of miasma’ to my vernacular if you don’t mind I will footnote you though.

Have a good day and no olfactory ordeals experienced anytime soon.
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Old 13th January 2019, 3:20 PM   #36
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I have a total blind spot when it comes to myself. I think I'm easy going but what it appears to me always, is that for some bewildering reason others think I'm a handful. And it doesn't generally happen that an ex offers up any kind of truly helpful critique of your character to help you see yourself through another person's eyes. My ex's just have a tendency to quietly absent themselves. I've always wished someone would tell me what they see.
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Old 14th January 2019, 3:50 AM   #37
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My husbandís top 3 complaints;
1. Iím too independent and wonít ask for help.
2. I donít like to answer his telephone (theyíd call me if they wanted to talk to me)
3. Iím too laid back/willing to go with the flow rather than be decisive or dominant.
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Old 14th January 2019, 10:45 AM   #38
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Great thread.

1) I am horribly indecisive but then pout when someone makes a decision for me that I don't like

2) Neat freak. My mom once called my house sterile

3) I get frustrated when people don't understand (my) logic. After all, I am second in line after Spock....LOL
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