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Old 12th March 2018, 6:00 PM   #16
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Originally Posted by Foxy Knoxy View Post
I definitely made it clear I wasn't okay with him dropping everything for this. I wanted a chance to talk about it and help him see a good alternative that works for everyone.
FK, take a step back and read what you've written here.

You're not OK with it, he needs your permission to do something for his family?

Whether or not it was your intent, it sounds very controlling and dismissive of his own judgement and abilities. Based on his reaction, I'd assume he took it the same way...

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