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Old 27th May 2011, 1:28 PM   #16
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The things she has unilaterally done to make herself more appealing to men seem strange to me when there is supposed to be one man in her life: you.
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Old 28th May 2011, 3:16 PM   #17
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I wonder if the implants are the only foreign objects that have been inserted in your wife's body.
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Old 28th May 2011, 7:54 PM   #18
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Old 29th May 2011, 2:49 AM   #19
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My wife also wants fake boobs. She claims it's for her self but what the heck does she think the guys looking at her are thinking?!
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Old 29th May 2011, 2:55 AM   #20
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IMO, it's not the what (breast augmentation) but how (unilateral) and the attendant behaviors of de-prioritization.

Be wary of new groups of girlfriends. For some people, at some times of their lives, it's little different than hanging out with a different 'clique' in high school, and sometimes just as unhealthy. I'll bet the bouncers could tell you stories if they already haven't.

Good luck. I'm thinking you'll need it.
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Old 29th May 2011, 3:55 AM   #21
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The only piece of advice I can give you is to grit your teeth and prepare for bad news.

Odds are, that's the only kind of news you'll find.
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Old 29th May 2011, 4:25 AM   #22
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I've been married to my wife for three years. She has always had an amazing figure and has a very gym honed, slim body, but was always quite shy.

18 months or so ago she met a new group of girls and started going out with them a lot, and over that time i noticed a change in her dress sense, with her dressing more sexily and she became more outgoing. I didnt think much of it because i was pleased she seemed happy with her new friends.

However, in November last year she seemed distant from me and she finally admitted that she was booked in for a boob job in December, and she hadnt told me because she was going up to a very big size and she thought i would be upset.

She had made up her mind and told me she had thought it through, and although when she first went for consultations she was only looking to go up one cup size, she decided she wanted to go as big as she could with her first boob job.

Fast forward six months and she is now fully recovered and she has changed so much. Her friends, which has grown to a large group of girls and guys, want her to go out with them every weekend, and she has everything from hair extensions to the fake tan, fake nails and killer heals and tight dresses. I met her out two weeks ago and she is very well known by all the bouncers and VIP's in all the bars and clubs.

What are people's thoughts on all this? Am i right to be very worried?
Why is it ok for your wife to be going out on weekends with guys and girls to bars and clubs without you? That is single behavior. Now add the changes she has made.

Bail dude. Bail. This will not end well.
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Old 29th May 2011, 8:31 PM   #23
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I wonder if the implants are the only foreign objects that have been inserted in your wife's body.
+++++ Nailed it on the head!
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Old 7th June 2011, 4:00 AM   #24
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Thanks

Thank you to all the great responses and thoughtful replies, i have found the advice and words given by you all to be very helpful.

There's lots of points made that i have since brought up with my wife.

I asked her if i could go out with her and her friends, and she was angry at first but then told me it would be fine for me to do so. All of her friends, girls and guys, are good looking and when we were out it was clear she is very well known in all the going out places and there were guys drooling over how she looked.
One of her friends told me, after a few drinks, that she is wild, and since her boob job guys can't wait to see what she will be wearing the next time she is out.

I didnt pick up upon the 'first boob job' comment until it was pointed out on here. However, i brought it up with her and she admitted that she would love to go even bigger and she had it in mind when having her first boob job. I must stress that she paid for the boob job out of her own money, from a bonus she earned through her job.

She told me last week that she has met a man who is an agent in the glamour and porn industries who loves her look and wants her to become his client, and she is considering having a portfolio of shots done and looking at doing some modelling as a side job.

We are both 26 for those who asked.

Anyway, thanks again for the replies.

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How do you personally feel about this jerry?
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This has all of the infidelity warning signs all over it.
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Old 7th June 2011, 6:06 AM   #27
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I'm unsure how to feel about her wanting to sign with an agent and look get some work with him.

I questioned how she had met him and she told me he had seen her out a few times and asked her friend if he could be introduced to her. She went to a party which was thrown by him at the weekend and had his range of clients there, and following that i feel she has made up her mind to sign with him.

What does worry, and please tell me if i am overthinking this way too much, is what type of work he is looking to get her. Her look - big fake boobs etc, and the fact she wants to go even bigger in the future, would seem in my eyes to sort of pigeon hole her in the porn modelling category rather than glamour modelling.
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I'm unsure how to feel about her wanting to sign with an agent and look get some work with him.

I questioned how she had met him and she told me he had seen her out a few times and asked her friend if he could be introduced to her. She went to a party which was thrown by him at the weekend and had his range of clients there, and following that i feel she has made up her mind to sign with him.

What does worry, and please tell me if i am overthinking this way too much, is what type of work he is looking to get her. Her look - big fake boobs etc, and the fact she wants to go even bigger in the future, would seem in my eyes to sort of pigeon hole her in the porn modelling category rather than glamour modelling.
All the holes are exposed here including the pigeon. Pigeon hole? hmmm. So it would be ok if she just dabbled in the porn industry in your mind. You just are concerned she would be limited to doing porn.

Wow. Boggles the mind. Unless you wish to be cuckholded further you should run away. Right now.
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This has all of the infidelity warning signs all over it.
No. No. Only an insecure man who does not love his wife would think anything is going on here.
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Old 7th June 2011, 10:14 AM   #30
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I think a poster has read my concerns about her modelling career wrong - my concern isnt so much her modelling topless, it's that her looks may mean she will be pushed into porn and porn mag modelling. That's my great concern.

Sorry for the confusion.
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