MTcase Posted April 21, 2013 Share Posted April 21, 2013 Hi, So i have been with my boyfriend since October so thats 7 months! We have met around 7 times as he only lives 2 hours away. We used to flirt all the time and stuff talk on the phone, skype as much as we could and it was fab. However its now April and last time we met was in the middle of Febuary, and i an keen to see him again, but he just doesnt seem to botherd or he changes the subject EVERY time i bring it up. Also he never lets me phone him or he doesnt have time to cam anymore and we just dont flirt and he doesnt make an effort, plus i dont think he even realises he is upsetting me. He says he's doing "work" everytime i ask to phone or skype with him which is understandable considering he is a uni student but i have work to do too but i still manage to make time for him? I don't know what to say to him about this, i would love if someone could give me some advice. thankyou Link to post Share on other sites
lifelesson101 Posted April 21, 2013 Share Posted April 21, 2013 It sounds like he is losing interest or moving on and doesn't know how to tell you. I am sure he cares on some level and doesn't want you hurt. However, actions do speak much louder than words. You need to pay attention to what he is doing. There are lots of other men out there who would love to be with you and make time for you. Put yourself out there an find them. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
meeji Posted April 22, 2013 Share Posted April 22, 2013 Tell him how you feel and see if he does anything about it. If not, the previos poster had some good advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MTcase Posted April 22, 2013 Author Share Posted April 22, 2013 Hey so i have finally confronted him about it, wish me luck guys Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted April 22, 2013 Share Posted April 22, 2013 Hey so i have finally confronted him about it, wish me luck guys What did he say? Link to post Share on other sites
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