hestheone66 Posted November 9, 2011 Share Posted November 9, 2011 for all of you in Loveshack land I think you may like to have an update on previous threads. For those that aren't in the mood to reread previous threads - summary of situation is * fell in love while M was in my town (we live 2 hours away by plane) * despite wanting to maintain LDR we both found it difficult and gave each other permission to date others as there was a period of time when we literally didn't know if we'd ever see each other within a 6 month time frame * he commenced relationship with a narcissist who bled him dry * the whole time he was with her he maintained contact with me, despite her tirades *sometimes we holidayed together (with his new GF) just to be in each other's company - the bond is very strong * I have children and a business in my town (my business can be relocated, and that's the plan) * He has business in his town (very passionate about his work) *he was previously well off, but due to his bad choices of new relationship, has nothing and has to start from scratch again which makes meeting up more difficult * my kids (adult and teenager) love him and he loves them * we just 'get each other' ANYWAY we just spent a great time together. Despite the problems we have no specific plans to label what it is that 'we' are, just a vague plan to be together when the time is right. I'm here now just because I want people to know that when it's real love, it DOES hurt to be in a LDR, but it is worth the day to day heartache... for an hour in each other's company... Hang in there other LDR-ers... let your love shine and don't waste precious time feeling insecure, anxious or inventing problems down the track that may never happen. afterall life doesn't come with a crystal ball... we don't know what the future will hold, but we can certainly cherish the present. Link to post Share on other sites
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