SophieA Posted April 30, 2009 Share Posted April 30, 2009 Just wondering what the average is in terms of visits. How often do you go visit your SO/ how often does your SO visit you? Do you think more frequent visits=more satisfaction with your LDR or not? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted April 30, 2009 Share Posted April 30, 2009 2 visits in 6 years 8 months. 1st visit 1 week 2nd visit 3 weeks So I guess the average is a visit every 3 years and 4 months. Love him. Absolutely together in every sense except physically. Satisfied? NO. And I will not be until we are together. Link to post Share on other sites
KikiW Posted April 30, 2009 Share Posted April 30, 2009 My visits are about every 2-3 months, so far only long weekends (3-4 days). July I will have him for an entire week (SQUEE!). And the visits are only mildly satisfying. Neither of us will be happy until we can wake up next to each other every day for the rest of our lives. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovin a scrapper Posted April 30, 2009 Share Posted April 30, 2009 I have been serious in my LDR since July of last year. I went to visit her in October (4 days) and then again in January (4 days). She came here last month (4 days) and she will be back in July (16 days). Ill be moved there with her by October and then thats when we will be truly satisfied. Dont get me wrong, I love the visits and cherish every minute with her but as Kiki said.... we wont be truly happy until we go to sleep and wake up in each others arms everyday forever. ( sorry Kiki, I could not think of anything better than what you wrote) Also Kiki, our LDR's almost mirror each others. lol Link to post Share on other sites
LonelyTiger Posted April 30, 2009 Share Posted April 30, 2009 We've been apart since last August and have seen each other every 3 or 4 months. That's probably going to be the pattern for the next two years. Two weeks at Christmas, two weeks at Easter and we'll get nearly two months in the Summer . He does all the travelling, for practical reasons (he comes home), though I may go out for a visit some time next year. I think as many visits as possible is the answer to coping with LDRs although I'm not sure that any number would actually 'satisfy' me. Just looking forward (all the time) to the last (permanent) visit in June 2011 - if it all works out as planned. Fingers crossed! Link to post Share on other sites
KikiW Posted May 1, 2009 Share Posted May 1, 2009 Also Kiki, our LDR's almost mirror each others. lol Wow, seriously! Link to post Share on other sites
Maggs Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 My fiance and I generally see each other every 3-4 months. Shortest time apart, probably 2 1/2 months, longest 4 months. I'd say we're pretty lucky seeing as how I live in Canada and he in the UK. Usually visits are 10 days-2 weeks. But I went over last December and stayed for 3 months. That'll be the only time we'll have a visit that long. As far as our visits being satisfying. Well they are for that moment, but soon replaced by the mundane life that is an LDR. As someone said before on here--being in an LDR is just surviving....it's not living! We'll only be truly happy when we're together finally. Link to post Share on other sites
IceWind Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 My girlfriend is an archeologist, so shes on the road alot during the summer months. After two years since starting her long distance jobs, we basically figured we need to see eachother once a month to keep us both from going insane, and to get laid In the meantime, i'm still trying to figure myself out and she likes to travel, so for the time being, the time apart works for us, but it is hard at times. Link to post Share on other sites
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