Confused_bout_luv Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 Six months ago I accepted a job here in England. I moved here from Toronto and left my boyfriend, my family and my friends behind. The original plan was that my boyfriend would move here after I settle in. Three months ago, my boyfriends father had a stroke and has been hospitalized...and has been intensive care ever since. The plan has now changed. He can no longer move here. I have been contemplating whether or not I should return home. But, at the same time...I don't know what I should do. I feel very lonely here in London. I have no friends, no family...nothing here. I miss everything I had in Toronto...my life was in Canada. I left everything behind to move here with the hopes of starting a new life with him, here, together. Don't get me wrong, the money is definitely more...but, what is money if there is nobody to share it with? I come home every night to an empty flat...with nobody to talk to and nobody to come home to. What should I do? Should I go home? On Friday night, we had a long talk over the phone and he said to me that he didn't want me to come home just for him...but, to come home because I really wanted to. I told him that I want things to be exactly the same as they were. I am willing to give up the money...if things could be exactly the same - I'm not sure how to read this. I know he is not cheating on me...that I am 110% sure of. There is no doubt in my mind about that. To be honest, if I knew that this job over here in London would do this to our relationship I would have never taken it...but, then again...he was suppose to be here with me right now! I don't know what to do... What should I do? Should I quit my job and come home? I miss him, there is no doubt about that. But, I must clarify that I am a very independent person that does not rely on anyone financially. I am capable of taking care of myself...but, I guess emotionally...I do need someone there for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrchi Posted November 27, 2006 Share Posted November 27, 2006 Go home. Look at this as a test of your relationship. More jobs will come, more money will come, true love comes but once. Beleave me I know what your going through. I was given the same advice i'm giving you. I didnt take it and I'll always be left wondering "what if" for the rest of my life. Link to post Share on other sites
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