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Haha. Cracking me up...

 

You know I went to bed with my SO just now and started touching him and asked him if he wanted to make love to me... took him 4 minutes to respond (I looked at the clock because it was directly in my eyes) to say "I can't right now." I asked why did it take so long to respond, he said *I do not know.* Blood sugar is low..

 

I'm really getting fed up of this.. Last 3 attempts I have been turned down.. and watch I come home from work tomorrow and he'll have porn everywhere. Meh.

 

Don't be a stiff in bed! There that makes a good lover. :)

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You know, I've just been thinking...

 

Meg, why don't you look into some other parts of LS OTHER than Cheating, Flirting and Jealousy.

 

You are always posting threads like this, and you are just getting yourself down about it all. You want to get over all this jealousy stuff right?

 

Then try and get your mind off it for a while. Go to The Water Cooler or something...you're bound to get a laugh along the way rather than just reading all these threads on people who have been cheated on or whatever. It makes you think about it more therefore paranoia = insecurity = trust issues = jealousy. You are setting yourself up for all of this.

 

Don't. And you'll also come across some women on here who AREN'T perfect, who don't strive to be perfect, yet in my eyes, ARE perfect!

 

Just my opinion. Don't mean to offend you or whatever!

 

Just try to get your mind off it for a while is all I suggest!! :)

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seriously, because i'd like to know

Enthusiasm, empathy, imagination, trust... And as lovestruck said, there's a lot more details in other forums.

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hey, meg....

 

Really, what makes a woman great in bed is that she really, really WANTS to be in the bed.

 

That's it. Just plain old desire, unabashedly released.

 

If you don't yet feel comfortable expressing yourself and what you want in bed, then consider yoga or dance, or anything that makes you comfortable with your body.

 

And masterbate a whole lot. Enjoy your body and men will, too. ;)

 

By the way, I bet you are wonderful and very desirable to men. Just find a guy that makes you feel that way and you will want to show HIM how much you desire him.

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Finding out the little things that are the sexual triggers, not just the physical "touch him here ....touch me here" part.

Does he like you to be in control?

Or do you get excited being told what to do in bed?

Does he like it when you are sweet and yielding?

Or forceful and take charge?

It is knowing what turns you on too that is exciting to your SO.

Take time to fantasize and masturbate , the pattern of your fantasties will let you know what excites you in bed.

 

Once you figure out what both his and your own triggers are, and it is important you are into it too, then that is what makes you good in bed. And things can keep getting better and better once you explore that.

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Haha. Cracking me up...

 

You know I went to bed with my SO just now and started touching him and asked him if he wanted to make love to me... took him 4 minutes to respond (I looked at the clock because it was directly in my eyes) to say "I can't right now." I asked why did it take so long to respond, he said *I do not know.* Blood sugar is low..

 

 

wow i hate that. that happens to me sometimes with my SO, and it used to hurt me. anyway after discussing it with him, i come to find out it humiliates him to turn me down and my dissapointment at being turned down furthers his embarassment. I guess men get old and lazy early? I turned it around and now, I dont ask: I proceed, and it really made a difference :laugh:

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a man, well most men, like woman to persue. after awhile men get sick of awlways getting. some woman tend to make rules for the bedroom 'play', and that takes the fun out of it for a man, so I would say being all inclusive ;) Men like to be flattered, the sexier they feel the better they perform and the better you perform. a woman who is good in bed puts in the same amount of work the man does and never slacks.

 

this will sound horriible, perhaps.. but i never turn my SO down, ever.

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What truly makes a woman good in bed is that she is in touch with her sexuality. In other words, she is not afraid to guide and control what makes her feel good if needed, and what will make her orgasm.

 

Regards,

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i know i'm late posting this reply, but (i'm speeking from experience), if you had a good sexual relationship before, and all of a sudden something has changed, there is always a reason. no matter what it is... work stress, financial stress, or anything else that you can think of that has changed lately... you always need to try to talk about it. if that other person isn't willing to talk about it, you either don't have good communication to begin with or something else is going on. believe me i know! i always say...where there is smoke, there is fire.

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If you're really into it, he can tell and will be too. Nothing replaces the excitement of knowing the other person is into it too. You fuel each other. :)

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i'm sorry, i guess, after reading all the replys, i forgot about what that thread was about. what makes somebody sexy to me is... totall inhibuiton in bed. this means being comfortabale with yourself. if you have a one night stand, it's easy to do anything, because that person doesn't know the real you, and all of your personal feelings. but if you are with someone that you really love, then you are putting your whole self out there (subject to ridicule, or rejection). not to say that it start's out that way, but everybody knows, that when you feel that love feeling, you are always the most vulnerable.

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