Annabanana247 Posted May 18, 2019 Share Posted May 18, 2019 (edited) So I had a post previous to this. So basically I’m 31 weeks pregnant, boyfriend has been very supportive, loving, coming to every doctors appointment, tells me he loves me, wants to be at the birth, tell me how excited he is. Well back in January I thought he was cheating because I found some questionable search history but he denied it. We got over it. It was great he wasn’t acting suspicious at all. But the other day I found out he actually was cheating because I snooped because I still wasn’t over the January incident. I was shocked. He had fake names and ages on all sorts of dating profiles saying he wanted to hookup. Searching escorts and a whole bunch of stuff. He told me they were old accounts but he was using current pictures of us that he cropped my face out of. So I made a fake profile on tinder and he started hitting me up not knowing it was me. I confronted him at home and he wouldn’t even look at me. He denied it still. So I took all my stuff and all my ultrasound pictures that were on the wall. He was really mad I took the pictures so I tried messaging him after I left to ask him to please explain himself. It’s been 4 days and he has not talked to me and deleted his Facebook profile. What do you guys think he’s thinking? I don’t want to be with him but is he planning on never talking to me again? He’s ghosted me since Tuesday. The problem is we are in a lease together and I’m trying to get out of it but I can’t get ahold of him. I want out of the lease before the baby is born. I’m lost and don’t know what to do? Anyone know what to say? Heeeeelp. Edited May 18, 2019 by Annabanana247 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted May 18, 2019 Share Posted May 18, 2019 Well you're in a tough place, I am very sorry you're going through this. Forget about chasing him down, go get a lawyer and sue him for half the rent, and prenatal child care, at the moment your child is born make him pay child support through the nose. This man played with your health and your unborn child's health. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 18, 2019 Share Posted May 18, 2019 You can still leave the apartment if you have to as you aren't in jail. Tell the manager what has happened, let them keep the deposit and move our as soon as possible so as to not incur more rent. If you end up still owing more take your ex bf to court. It's good you don't want him back as it looks like he was looking for away out. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted May 21, 2019 Share Posted May 21, 2019 The problem is we are in a lease together and I’m trying to get out of it but I can’t get ahold of him. Actually, the lifetime commitment of having a child together is a bigger looming problem than the apartment lease. As others have advised, see a lawyer. You have numerous support and custody issues to sort out and not a lot of time to do so. Sorry this has happened to you... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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