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How does a woman “steal” someone elses man?


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Old 3rd March 2019, 11:12 AM   #1
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How does a woman “steal” someone elses man?

Another post on here got me thinking how does that even happen?? What the woman just walks around in tight clothes and he just goes after her because he wants to stiff something new while being in a relationship?
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Old 3rd March 2019, 11:28 AM   #2
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No one steals anyone. We all have free will and the ability to say no.

That doesn't mean you can't look negatively upon someone who is inappropriately flirty and suggestive with someone who's involved with someone else.
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Old 3rd March 2019, 11:32 AM   #3
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There are many different ways a woman can "steal" someone else's man.
He, of course must be open to being "stolen" though.
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Old 3rd March 2019, 11:38 AM   #4
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Highroller107,

You're 100% correct that it cannot actually happen, in reality -- it can, and does, only happen in the minds of people who want to and/or are capable of blame; and then,
for whatever reason, they decide to blame only one person when, clearly, two people were involved in the decision and choice to get together.
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Old 3rd March 2019, 1:37 PM   #5
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It means the woman did her a favor.
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Old 3rd March 2019, 4:25 PM   #6
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So, anyone can flirt with someone else’s man, but it’s up to the man to take upon those actions? Two to tango right?
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Old 3rd March 2019, 4:39 PM   #7
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Correct. And it works the same way with a man who's interested in another man's girlfriend.

Also, tight sexy clothing is not necessary if he likes the new woman better than the one he's with.
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Old 3rd March 2019, 4:41 PM   #8
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I believe that someone can push another over the edge, but I dont believe anyone can steal anyone away.
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Old 4th March 2019, 1:48 PM   #9
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It means the woman did her a favor.
Indeed this is too true. However people really have a difficult time hearing this.
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Oh, I know a couple of pros at it and what they do is prey on men's basic weakness, which is offer no-string sex "nobody has to know," which any sex worker can tell you very few men can pass up. Men love "no obligation" sex. And all it takes is for the girlfriend to catch on, and presto, she's removed the man from the relationship.
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Amen to the "did her a favor" comment.
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Old 4th March 2019, 5:31 PM   #12
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There's an excellent example of what I wrote just one post above that was just posted by a guy tempted by a coworker coming on to him at a party in "Debating breaking up with my gf of 9 mos."

https://www.loveshack.org/forums/rom...up-gf-9-months
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Oh, I know a couple of pros at it and what they do is prey on men's basic weakness, which is offer no-string sex "nobody has to know," Men love "no obligation" sex. And all it takes is for the girlfriend to catch on, and presto, she's removed the man from the relationship.
Yes... I agree for the most part. I am your typical example of the male (dog/rat/etc.) that would jump at the chance for NSA sex, whether I'm in a relationship or not and have done it (many times).

In the end though, a man isn't going to go out for bologna if he is getting filet mignon at home.

In my youth, I was dating this one woman where "no" was not in her vocabulary. Anything I could want, she did and she threw in the occasional surprise (Ah... memories). I had plenty of opportunities to cheat on her, but the sex was so good I didn't want to risk losing her, so I stayed true.

Just my two cents...
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Old 7th March 2019, 9:48 PM   #14
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You can’t steel someone away from another.

Either they will or won’t cheat.
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Yes... I agree for the most part. I am your typical example of the male (dog/rat/etc.) that would jump at the chance for NSA sex, whether I'm in a relationship or not and have done it (many times).

In the end though, a man isn't going to go out for bologna if he is getting filet mignon at home.

In my youth, I was dating this one woman where "no" was not in her vocabulary. Anything I could want, she did and she threw in the occasional surprise (Ah... memories). I had plenty of opportunities to cheat on her, but the sex was so good I didn't want to risk losing her, so I stayed true.

Just my two cents...
Some do go for bologna or even Spam though. Seen it a million times. Tiger Woods comes to mind. Depends why they do it. He did it for validation.
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