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Old 16th February 2019, 2:51 AM   #1
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If a man I just met randomly mentions my sex appeal in a conversation when I wasnít really paying attention, does that mean he thinks Iím sexy or is he just paying me a compliment or is he testing the water with me trying to see if I would react to his comment which I didnít because it caught me off guard and I didnít know what to say because I am kinda shy. What would his intentions be? He is a lot older than me so I was confused. We are just acquaintances as if now so Iíve talked to him a few times but it seems like recently he is flirting more. Not sure if he is playing around or what. I donít feel comfortable asking him so Iím asking you all.
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Old 16th February 2019, 2:57 AM   #2
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What did he say, exactly?

I assume if he's flirting he finds you attractive.
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Old 16th February 2019, 9:46 AM   #3
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I was looking something up on my phone and he said ďwell that will be a bad thing for your sex appealĒ as I was talking about my skin breaking out a little bit. I didnít mention feeling unattractive so he took it upon himself to bring up sex appeal.
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Old 16th February 2019, 1:01 PM   #4
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He is a lot older than me so I was confused. We are just acquaintances as if now so I’ve talked to him a few times but it seems like recently he is flirting more. Not sure if he is playing around or what. I don’t feel comfortable asking him so I’m asking you all.
Yet another 'much older' guy hitting on a young woman. How unusual.

I'll never forget - when I was 25 years old, some 55-60 year old pervert came up to me and made some comment about, "if I were only 20 years younger..." and in disgust I blurted back, "if you were 20 years younger, what? You'd be my grandfather????" Repulsive.

So unappealing when these perverts think they actually have a chance.

If you're smart OP, you'll avoid this guy like the plague. There's just something so nasty about old men looking for vulnerable women too naive to KNOW any better.
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Old 16th February 2019, 2:20 PM   #5
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I was looking something up on my phone and he said ďwell that will be a bad thing for your sex appealĒ as I was talking about my skin breaking out a little bit. I didnít mention feeling unattractive so he took it upon himself to bring up sex appeal.
His comment was just... stupid.
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Old 16th February 2019, 2:30 PM   #6
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Well, clearly he has sex on the brain...

This is not exactly a positive compliment, however. If anything, it is more of a backhanded compliment.

Whatever he meant, it would put him firmly in the ďcreepy old manĒ category for me and make me put some distance between us... but then again, I have no interest in either flirting or dating a much older man.
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Old 16th February 2019, 3:16 PM   #7
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I think his comment was just stupid, "well that would be a bad thing for your sex appeal" meaning a break out on your face could ruin your looks.
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Old 16th February 2019, 3:33 PM   #8
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This is not exactly a positive compliment, however. If anything, it is more of a backhanded compliment.
This. I would be insulted, not flattered.
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Old 16th February 2019, 7:14 PM   #9
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Thatís what I was wondering. Is it an insult or was he hitting on me?
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Old 16th February 2019, 8:29 PM   #10
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Is that not negging?
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Old 16th February 2019, 8:33 PM   #11
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I donít know what negging is? Is it suppose to be a compliment but isnít?
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Old 17th February 2019, 9:23 AM   #12
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Dirty old man hitting on a young woman that he finds attractive.
No more, no less.

SOP (standard operating procedure, for you youngsters) to find a way
to start a conversation besides asking the time, off hand weather
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Old 17th February 2019, 1:59 PM   #13
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Thatís what I was wondering. Is it an insult or was he hitting on me?
Both . . . how old is this guy? And, how old are you?
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Old 17th February 2019, 2:17 PM   #14
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He didn't mean anything by that at all. Just validating that skin breakouts aren't sexy. That doesn't mean he otherwise thinks you're sexy at all.
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Old 17th February 2019, 6:06 PM   #15
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I am 32 and Iím not sure his age but Iíd say prob mid 50s. I always have the old dudes hitting on me. Lol
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