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Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy Being unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.

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Old 4th January 2018, 5:06 PM   #16
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I think the best thing to do is to finish the house and sell.

Sorry for what is happening.

Talk with a lawyer before you confront him. Show the lawyer the insurance email and see if you have any legal footing to go after him for fraud. The money you have spent for the wedding and house try and get back from him if the lawyer says you can.

Do not confront until you have seen the lawyer.
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Old 4th January 2018, 5:56 PM   #17
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Agree with usa1ah's post. See a lawyer ASAP.


I think this man never broke up with the first woman. I think he's leading a double life--long distance relationship with her, local relationship with you. He probably is engaged to you both, to keep her around after all this time.

Ugh.
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Old 4th January 2018, 9:04 PM   #18
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Agree with usa1ah's post. See a lawyer ASAP.


I think this man never broke up with the first woman. I think he's leading a double life--long distance relationship with her, local relationship with you. He probably is engaged to you both, to keep her around after all this time.

Ugh.
This is exactly what I'm thinking. He's leading a double life.
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Old 4th January 2018, 9:31 PM   #19
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I have to confront him tonight. We live separately but he practically lives at my house because he sleeps here every night. As much as I would like to wait to consult a lawyer, I refuse to continue sleeping in the bed with a liar.
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Old 4th January 2018, 11:47 PM   #20
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I have to confront him tonight. We live separately but he practically lives at my house because he sleeps here every night. As much as I would like to wait to consult a lawyer, I refuse to continue sleeping in the bed with a liar.
I understand completely. Stay strong.
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Old 5th January 2018, 12:47 AM   #21
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What a shame... To think everything is better just to find out nothing has really changed. Must be very hard. But clearly, you need to get out of this. Doesn't seem that he is going to stop this other relationship anytime soon. He gave you reasons to snoop on a silver platter, so I wouldn't worry about that. He may try and make that the issue to turn it around on you, stay focused his mistakes, not yours. Tell him you know everything and you are done.
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