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Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy Being unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.

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Old 29th September 2015, 11:20 AM   #46
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Get your popcorn, Spectre...I suspect this low drama has not even gotten to the first commercial break
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Old 29th September 2015, 5:55 PM   #47
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I mean come on now..people need to read these threads more closely. It'd be different if this wasn't a guy she had feelings for that lasted for years..but that is the case so it's not some innocent thing that some people make it out to be.

Just makes no sense to me to say wanting to cheat isn't wrong. She didn't say it was a fleeting thought, but something she thinks about a lot. That is not a sign of a healthy relationship, that is not normal if you are in love, and it's honestly just disrespectful.

I just don't get why shady behavior is sometimes downplayed here.

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Old 29th September 2015, 11:56 PM   #48
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She is only being human.....she will figure it out.

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Old 30th September 2015, 6:12 PM   #49
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Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
She is only being human.....she will figure it out.
This is a cop out and you know it. But I know she will figure it out, I don't doubt that one bit. What I do doubt is that she will tell her boyfriend of the shady shenanigans going on.
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