thinktomuch Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 (edited) OK I am engaged to my soul Mate, and I have escaped a very abusive marriage. We are totally in love and very happy and totally honest with each other. We live together and share a home office; i was moving some stuff around and found an old cell. In the beginning of our relationship we had A LOT of fun texting, which I had never done, and she stated she never had also... blah blah blah we are working on a phone for a mutual friend in need, so I charged it to see if it was a positive solution, well the phone won't work as a phone but it did work long enough to prove I wasn't the first, and not the first to receive some of the pics I have. Do I confront gently or forget? I was thinking of putting it on the dining room table to spark conversation, like do you want to toss this, it won't stay powered up for very long I tried it for so and so..... am I thinking too much, or was it a bold a@$ lie? Don't know What to Do Edited September 27, 2012 by thinktomuch better Title Link to post Share on other sites
WhatYouWantToHear Posted September 27, 2012 Share Posted September 27, 2012 When given options I always vote for the passive/aggresive douchebag one. Then even if this gets resolved, always try to work it into any fights you have in the future: her--'Did you remember to pick up the dry cleaning?' you--'No, I forgot. Kind of like how you forgot about sending nudie pics to someone else 7 years ago' If the beginning of the relationship was more than 4 months ago, take the high road and say nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
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