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Old 6th January 2004, 1:13 PM   #1
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Help advancing before she goes

I am currently seeing this 18 year old girl who has been over on holiday for about a month and a half and is leaving in about two weeks. We have got on well been out together several times over christmas holidays and spent new years eve together. So far there has been nothing really beyond 1st face because i am usually a slow mover because i am shy but due to my lack of time i am beginning to think i need to pick up speed to move things on further. Does anybody have any suggestions on to how i could do this and take things further. Moonie M
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Old 6th January 2004, 2:19 PM   #2
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Best bet in this situation is honesty. She may already be wondering what's wrong. Tell her you are on the shy type some, and to give you some cues you can follow. Most chicks love that kinda stuff.
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Old 6th January 2004, 3:26 PM   #3
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Yeah thats true, and she is shy herself so that seems a good tactic, thanks any other suggestions are welcome.
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Old 6th January 2004, 7:38 PM   #4
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Best Advice

Best advice for anyone is to Beat Down The Fear.

Just be cool, Be yourself and tell her how you feel about her.
Tell her you would have told her sooner but you value her company
and friendship. But don't make it all uncomfortable for her. In fact tell her that.
Tell her you don't mean to make her feel uncomfortable but want to let her
know how you feel. If she rejects you in that way....Then take it easy and
be cool. Don't be bummed, she may not be ready. Good Luck
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