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Old 2nd May 2006, 5:55 PM   #1
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I slept with a

call girl/escort, whatever term you want to use. I wanted some and was tired of waiting so I just went ahead and did it. Just thought I'd throw that out there. Now that I've done it once and got over my hesitance, I'll probably do it again.
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Old 2nd May 2006, 6:03 PM   #2
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Was she worth the money? I'm sure she was cheaper than dating if you purely wanted to bone and nothing else.
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Old 2nd May 2006, 6:10 PM   #3
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call girl

The escort girl was "worth the money" just for the experience of getting laid, which I'd never had (I'm in mid-twenties).
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Old 2nd May 2006, 6:14 PM   #4
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The escort girl was "worth the money" just for the experience of getting laid, which I'd never had (I'm in mid-twenties).
Exchanging "my first time" stories with your first girlfriend will be interesting.
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Old 2nd May 2006, 6:19 PM   #5
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well, I should say that I actually have had A girlfriend, though we didn't sleep together (we did everything else).

second, I'm concerned b/c that issue may be raised someday in a relationship when it comes time to discuss past sexual experiences. Telling someone I've been with call girls could be a major turn-off. I'll probably just keep that secret for myself.

at the rate I'm going, I'll prob never BE in a relationship (else I wouldn't have broken down and finally paid for sex), so it may be a moot point anyway.
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Old 2nd May 2006, 6:35 PM   #6
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How do you get a boner when you know she's only there because your paying her?

I have always wondered this question. I just find it a major turn off if the gal really wasn't into me but many others obviously don't care or the worlds oldest profession wouldn't exist.
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Old 2nd May 2006, 7:07 PM   #7
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Just out of curiousity... can you share with us how much she cost... and the details???
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Old 2nd May 2006, 7:37 PM   #8
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as to the question of how I got a boner...well it's a good-looking naked girl in my room, which is something I haven't had for quite a while.

as to how much it costs, it was about two hundred (fee for "companionship") plus about another hundred "tip" (for the other stuff).

as for the details of the encounter, I looked up a service from a local paper that runs ads for escorts and just called her. I asked the girl to describe herself over the phone and she came over in about an hour/hour and a half.

she arrived, we made small talk, and she laid down the ground rules (no oral sex, no finger action, etc) and then she asked what I wanted and where I wanted to do it. We moved to my bedroom (I live alone in an apt) and negotiated the "tip" and then got down to business. afterwards, she stayed for a bit and then left.
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Old 2nd May 2006, 7:39 PM   #9
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as to how much it costs, it was about two hundred (fee for "companionship") plus about another hundred "tip" (for the other stuff).
I think I'm way over that amount with the current girl I'm seeing and we haven't even kissed yet. I'd say you got a good deal.
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Old 2nd May 2006, 7:43 PM   #10
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I should have said that the "no oral sex" restriction meant I was forbidden from performing it on her. She did perform on me (all with protection, of course).
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Ok, don't laugh... what the heck, laugh. My husband of 10 years offered me 10 grand for boning me in the 'other hole' in a very sleezy way. (I said no.) But I also pretended to be extremely offended, as in, 'what? you think I'm a whore?'
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I should have said that the "no oral sex" restriction meant I was forbidden from performing it on her. She did perform on me (all with protection, of course).
Why the hell would anyone give her money just so you can please her? That'd be the stupidest deal of all time.
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Old 2nd May 2006, 7:54 PM   #13
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Why the hell would anyone give her money just so you can please her? That'd be the stupidest deal of all time.
MadDog, you don't think eating p**** is pleasurable (for you)??
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Old 2nd May 2006, 8:14 PM   #14
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Nomad... I am struck with conflicting thoughts here! At first I was like "ewww, skummy!" Once you mentioned that you lost your V-card to this person, I thought "hmmm, not a bad way to go... you don't have to worry about your performance, cuz frankly, who cares what she thinks? and you get an experienced partner who can probably show you a few tricks"

I have to agree with you about a future g/f not being to thrilled about learning this part of your past. I'm sure there are many women out there that won't mind... I hope you find one because I'm a HUGE proponent of honesty with your partner.

Uhm, one final question... you mentioned that she stayed for a bit and then left. So, what exactly did ya'll talk about? Maybe you didn't talk... maybe you snuggled? (oooh, i feel like that would be weird). Did you ask her how it was for her? (I would want to know)
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How do you get a boner when you know she's only there because your paying her?

I have always wondered this question. I just find it a major turn off if the gal really wasn't into me but many others obviously don't care or the worlds oldest profession wouldn't exist.
I think like you Yamaha. That's why while I have been to strip clubs, they're not exactly my favorite destinations. But I look at that more as a disability, since that's one less way I can get a boner.

Anyhow, Nomad, don't get discouraged about not being able to hook up with women. There are plenty good advice on this forum on what to do, you just have to put a genuine effort into it. Some people are born with the mojo. But if you don't have it, it takes a lot of work to emulate it. But it is possible.

When you do get into a relationship and this comes up, you can always sell it like what you said earlier... you broke down and did it. You were in a mentally depressed time in your life, you felt hopeless. Which is kind of what you said anyway so it wouldn't be lying. And if she's not okay with it, go find another chick (or get another escort).

I spent $200 a number of months back taking a girl out. I got nuthin. You did better than me. Can I borrow a Sucka sticker from anyone? I need to put it on my forehead.
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