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zara

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Ok, my bf dumps me on a weekly basis and he's just done it again. Basically because he sees his friends as more important than me and thinks i'm trying to somehow undermine him. I actually think he has real mental issues - his drug use, mood swings and irritable behaviour back up my thoughts - as well as developmental problems (he appears to be stuck in adolesence) but he refuses to acknowledge this and refuses to get help.

 

I know that most people will ask why i've been wasting my time but the fact remains that i know if he'd just get some help with his problems he'd be the decent, loving, thoughtful boyfriend he'd like to be.

 

I really don't know why i'm typing this - it's not as if there is anything i can do about the situation - he dumped me as usual so i have no choice but to go - even though that's going to involve me sleeping in my office, where there's no heating at the moment. I guess i'm just feeling sorry for myself.

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make him keep his word and never speak to him again and never take him back..

 

You don't need that type of controlling drama in your life.. he is immature

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slubberdegullion

That sucks, Zara. A_C has it right on (as usual). Lose the dude and any vestige of him in your life. Who needs s*** like that?

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