ZA Dater Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 Girl 1: "I have recently come out a long term relationship, I am looking for people to hang around with, go on adventures with and who knows". Not sure what that really means but anyway we are chatting. The conversation isn't flowing and it doesn't seem there is much of anything going on, she looks great so I would say she is attractive. I however am the worlds least adventurous person. I suppose I best just pass on this. Girl 2 Apparently has two degrees, dry conversation, very little going on and any conversation is like extracting water from a rock. Average looking. Girl 3 Graphic designer, Swiss born, seems interesting, again very little to talk about so not going anywhere. Average looking and no real connection. I suppose its a stupid question but do I just let these all go? What would you do? Link to post Share on other sites
MaleIntuition Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 I would ask them out I suppose, not trying to have an “interesting” text convo. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ZA Dater Posted March 17, 2019 Author Share Posted March 17, 2019 I would ask them out I suppose, not trying to have an “interesting” text convo. Girl 1: Doesn't want a date, she wants an adventure whatever that is supposed to mean Girl 2: Doesn't really interest me. Girl 3: Doesn't really interest me. Do I try take 2 and 3 out anyway and see but seeing as its almost impossible to communicate with them I don't expect a date would be much better. Link to post Share on other sites
MaleIntuition Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 Girl 1; it means she is looking for a rebound and nothing serious. Text conversation doesn’t translate well to real life; ask them out and see what happens. Or don’t. Link to post Share on other sites
Kelliousme Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 Don't be so quick to judge. Not everyone is text savvy or likes to type paragraphs and essays about themselves. I don't even get how you can determine whether there's a connection or not without even meeting them in person. SO yes.. I'd say take them out on a date and see how it goes from there. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 Girl 1 - not looking for anyone to date, just looking for a good time. The other two, give them a chance if you want. Neither sound like your “dream girl” but your standards are usually a little unrealistic. See what happens... Link to post Share on other sites
littleblackheart Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 So you're talking to 3 girls at the same time? Not too shabby, OP! I would say only ask any of them on a date if you can muster a modicum of enthusiasm about the whole thing, not like it's a chore. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 Girl 1: Doesn't want a date, she wants an adventure whatever that is supposed to mean it means she is looking for a guy with a large "package" Link to post Share on other sites
Interstellar Posted March 18, 2019 Share Posted March 18, 2019 Yes, don’t be too quick to judge. Take them out on coffee dates, and see if there’s any chemistry. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ZA Dater Posted March 19, 2019 Author Share Posted March 19, 2019 it means she is looking for a guy with a large "package" Girl 1 is the most appealing but the most evasive chat wise, she is a horse riding instructor and a part time property developer. She spent more time trying to get me to invest in her development than she did telling me about herself. Then again she does have a pretty face so even logical me becomes illogical when confronted with a pretty face. I keep asking myself though "what is the point of this", when I ask this question my enthusiasm seems to wane somewhat. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ZA Dater Posted March 19, 2019 Author Share Posted March 19, 2019 Girl 1 - not looking for anyone to date, just looking for a good time. The other two, give them a chance if you want. Neither sound like your “dream girl” but your standards are usually a little unrealistic. See what happens... I always read your responses very carefully. Do you think Girl 1 is best not pursued? The problem really is none of these three I feel I could "work" with them. One thing I learnt this year with the yogi was that I need that sort of lively person to make me a bit more outgoing. Link to post Share on other sites
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