DrasticMeasurements Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 I’m 24 and have Asperger’s. Because of how difficult my disorder makes socializing and approaching new people, I’ve never been on a date. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 that's a good idea 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 Yeah, why not. Sex work has a very real place for those who don't have the social skills to date. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Garcon1986 Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 Downsides are that you might get an STD, and that this will probably be an expensive affair. Benefits - you will get to see what real flirting looks like, what the experience of sex is like, and probably get some feedback on how to do better. I believe you when you say dating is incredibly rough - so go ahead, give it a try, and share with us if you learn anything from it. My bet is you will like it. Link to post Share on other sites
Mumbles Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 Go ahead, enjoy life! I've been a 'hobbiest' for more than 6 years and have never regretted the decision.... and it wasn't an easy decision to make given my background and upbringing. Be prepared though, its an expensive hobby Don't overextend yourself financially and try not to get too invested, emotionally, in any of the lovely girls you are likely to meet. Link to post Share on other sites
rightondude Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 as a fellow likely undiagnosed aspie to some extent, I would suggest you continue working on yourself as I said in your other thread. But, if you do hire a pro, and I'm not saying you shouldn't, just be sure you can get it up during that process. If not, you will hate yourself even more. I don't think I could get it up if I was giving a woman money to have pity sex with me. But that's just me. Plus you risk arrest, STD's, getting killed by a pimp... nah, I'd rather work on myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Simple Logic Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 I can’t recommend the use of prostitutes by any one. No only are you at risk for an STD, you might end up being a victim a number of other crimes. Be very careful. Link to post Share on other sites
rightondude Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 P.S. at 24 you have a LONG way to go. You are beating yourself up way too early. Focus on yourself. Trust me, by the time you hit 35 you will be MUCH better off. If you just bop the baloney till then, so be it. Just learn yourself, refine yourself, and you will be fine. Trust me. I am 41 now and probably the happiest I have been in my life. I never had a date in high school, I went through my 20's chasing women (and some chasing me!) and not getting any (because I was a weirdo and didn't get how to act with women), got married to a woman who used me at 31, divorced at 39, and I have never been happier at 41. Link to post Share on other sites
ZA Dater Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 The sex part is a terrible idea but the date idea might not be a bad idea to at least a get a good dating experience. Link to post Share on other sites
WomenWubber Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 (edited) I cannot serioursly encourage you to hire a pro, as that would basically be the same as telling you to commit a crime depending on where you live. What's the hurry with losing it? Do you feel socially pressured to do so asap? Also I gotta ask you, what is sex to you? Is it something you could enjoy with someone you just met and will have to pay after the deed is done? Edited November 23, 2018 by WomenWubber Link to post Share on other sites
5x5 Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 Sure why not, I hope you enjoy it. Link to post Share on other sites
5x5 Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 The sex part is a terrible idea but the date idea might not be a bad idea to at least a get a good dating experience. Actually the sex part is the whole point, so it's not a bad idea at all. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 Invest in the "GF" experience...dinner, good conversation, nice walk, then find a motel and slam her. Link to post Share on other sites
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