Does this gym girl like me?

[crazyguy123]

So I've seen this girl around at the gym for sometime. She's absolutely gorgeous. I never had the chance to talk to her because I usually mind my own business.

 

Anyways, last night I was at the gym and we both came really late. There were no gym classes available anymore. So I asked her if she wanted to train together. She said "sure"

 

So we started to train together and had little chit chats. She asked me what I did for a living and I said I work for TV. She replied if I made "porn" I quickly replied back asking if she would like to be the star of it.

 

Then we continued on, I asked what she did and she said she works as an extra doing TV shows but not for porn

 

After our workout was done, she layed down and tapped the ground next to her for me to lay down next to her. This was still at the gym. We had a little more small talk and she asked me about my tattoos.

 

Right after that, I began to stretch because I have a bad back. She told me to roll on my stomach, lifted my shirt, and gave me a back massage. She offered. Surprisingly nice of her.

 

Then, as we were leaving, she even offered me a ride home.

 

What are your thoughts?

[fredflint]

Does this gym girl like me?

 

Probably .

[preraph]

Or else she's sucking up to you because you're in tv and she's in tv. I think giving you a massage was more than a little odd. And your comment about if she'd like to star in porn was inappropriate. So both of you were inappropriate -- match made in heaven!

[Romantic_Antics]

And your comment about if she'd like to star in porn was inappropriate.

 

Oh come on. Don't be such a prude. She asked if he made porn, he asked if she'd like to be the star of it. With the right delivery that's quality flirting.

 

And yes, she likes you, TC. Hopefully you got her number and/or asked her out on a date.

[preraph]

^ Please. In no universe is that a compliment.

[mortensorchid]

Maybe she does. Have you seen her since? If so and you want to see her outside of there, ask for her phone number. If she declines that's your answer. Maybe she was just being friendly.

[CrazyKatLady]

yep, good match. she sounds interested. go for it!

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

I find the massage creepy, personally, but I also can't imagine someone doing that if they were not interested, so I'd say she is highly interested!

[Romantic_Antics]

^ Please. In no universe is that a compliment.

 

It's clearly going over your head. It's not intended to be a compliment; it's a sexually flirtatious comment where, after she jokingly asks him if he makes porn, he asks if she'd like to be the star of it (with him).

 

She got it, you didn't.

[preraph]

It's clearly going over your head. It's not intended to be a compliment; it's a sexually flirtatious comment where, after she jokingly asks him if he makes porn, he asks if she'd like to be the star of it (with him).

 

She got it, you didn't.

 

Nothing's going over my head. No one except a stripper or someone already in the industry would think that comment was anything except creepy. I'm definitely getting a pro vibe from her, though. I think there's a lot more to this story. All I can say is if you think that's clever and sexy and flirtatious, you probably don't have much experience with real live women.

[smackie9]

Women like a man to be confident to take the lead. The only way to find out is to ask her for her number....put your big boy pants on and ask her out on a date.

[Romantic_Antics]

Nothing's going over my head. No one except a stripper or someone already in the industry would think that comment was anything except creepy. I'm definitely getting a pro vibe from her, though. I think there's a lot more to this story. All I can say is if you think that's clever and sexy and flirtatious, you probably don't have much experience with real live women.

 

What's your problem, preraph? I have tons of experience, thank you very much. I've dated or fooled around with at least 100 women - yes, real live ones - and was even married for 7 years. It didn't end in divorce due to a lack of experience with real live women, it ended with a tragic car accident that took her life at the age of 29.

 

So don't make asinine and insulting assumptions just because you lack the personality to comprehend how a comment like that was sexually flirtatious and not offensive or creepy. When I was in college I used to say things that had my fraternity brothers baffled as to how I got away with it and I told them the same thing I'm about to tell you: it's not always about what you say, but how you say it. I said that up above, too - that it's all in the delivery.

 

My closing comment to you is for you is to recognize that this girl did not get creeped out, didn't ditch him right then and there, and even made an additional joke about porn later on in the conversation *after* the TC made the comment he did. You're way too old and way too stiff to understand how the entire porn thing was playful and sexually suggestive/flirtatious. So please don't insult me again and I won't insult you back, tit for tat.

[smackie9]

Hey no one was there but you OP we get it...porn comment wasn't a bad thing.

 

 

 

I don't know why you struggle to see her level of interest. If you had plenty of experience and know women well enough like you say, this should be pretty straight forward for you, would it not?

 

 

 

Just my opinion but, if any woman engages in friendly, flirtatious conversation, has potential anyways. It's a given.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

Hey no one was there but you OP we get it...porn comment wasn't a bad thing.

 

 

 

I don't know why you struggle to see her level of interest. If you had plenty of experience and know women well enough like you say, this should be pretty straight forward for you, would it not?

 

 

 

Just my opinion but, if any woman engages in friendly, flirtatious conversation, has potential anyways. It's a given.

 

I think you're mixing up posters, Smackie.

[alphamale]

What are your thoughts?

 

dude you need to bang this chick

[FilterCoffee]

So I've seen this girl around at the gym for sometime. She's absolutely gorgeous. I never had the chance to talk to her because I usually mind my own business.

 

Anyways, last night I was at the gym and we both came really late. There were no gym classes available anymore. So I asked her if she wanted to train together. She said "sure"

 

So we started to train together and had little chit chats. She asked me what I did for a living and I said I work for TV. She replied if I made "porn" I quickly replied back asking if she would like to be the star of it.

 

Then we continued on, I asked what she did and she said she works as an extra doing TV shows but not for porn

 

After our workout was done, she layed down and tapped the ground next to her for me to lay down next to her. This was still at the gym. We had a little more small talk and she asked me about my tattoos.

 

Right after that, I began to stretch because I have a bad back. She told me to roll on my stomach, lifted my shirt, and gave me a back massage. She offered. Surprisingly nice of her.

 

Then, as we were leaving, she even offered me a ride home.

 

What are your thoughts?

 

Dude, how much more do you expect her to do? Be bold and tell her that you find her attractive and that you want to see her outside the gym.

[Philosopher]

Even me, who is normally pretty rubbish at reading other people's emotions can tell that she really likes you.

[coolheadal]

Personal attacks not really necessary here on LS we're here to help each other out. But in any case women behavior in all sorts of manner. You has the guy have to determined if she's the best one for you. Based on what you said to her she might be more interested in what you do for a living than you?

[alphamale]

Based on what you said to her she might be more interested in what you do for a living than you?

 

do I hear "casting couch" and "Harvey Weinstein"? Oh no!