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Hi all, I am a 24 Male, went out with 24 Female

 

I'd just like to get some opinions on how this went since it's not extremely common to come across someone that I really like, and I suppose that's for most people too.

 

There is a girl that I went to high school with and graduated with years ago, always had her on instagram and facebook but never really talked to her kind of thing, she was in 1 or 2 of my classes or something.

 

For it being summer now and having the best time to date stress free, I messaged her about 2 weeks ago. It was very spur of the moment, she responded that same night, and we just sort of hit it off from there. Again, we graduated the same school the same year, but never really talked to each other so this was the first time.

 

After we got to know each other by messaging for a day or 2, I got her number and we texted back and forth for about a good week, every single day around our work schedules.

 

I then asked her out that weekend, and she already had plans with her friends to go dancing at a nearby club, and she asked me to go with them. I thought this was a pretty good sign, so i went along with them this weekend.

 

 

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So we all got along really well, talked for a while at the bar, then went dancing. The entire night, about 3 hours+ we danced and she was dancing on me and were grinding basically the entire time

 

Her friend drove her so after the club, me and her, along with her friend, went out to eat. We talked for a really long time, hours. She went to the bathroom and her friend said in a really good way, "so do you like her? I think she likes youuu. You should totally ask her out again. You look really good together and i approve of you"

 

So today is basically the night after, and we've been talking like we usually do and how much fun we had. We liked everything... how comfortable we were with each other, how easy it was to talk to each other, how we both find each other attractive. Everything seems really as good as it can get, our first "Date" went as good as it can, and from what i can at least "tell" from the whole thing she seems really happy.

 

So from your view, how do you think this all went so far? Anything good or bad? Tomorrow should i ask her on a date for this weekend?

 

Appreciate it all!

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Sounds like everything is on track. Now time to ask her out for next weekend, just the two of you. Her friends like you, or at least that one was trying to encourage you. So the stars are aligned. Keep asking on real dates. First real date just you and her, kiss her at the end of it. Do not omit that part.

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Hey you got GF approval, that's a leg up in the good impression dept. Carry on, everything looks like a go.

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Sounds like everything is on track. Now time to ask her out for next weekend, just the two of you. Her friends like you, or at least that one was trying to encourage you. So the stars are aligned. Keep asking on real dates. First real date just you and her, kiss her at the end of it. Do not omit that part.

 

I really appreciate it! I just feel like something always ruins it when i really like somebody haha.

I'm asking her out for this weekend, to an actual place that we can talk and really get to know eachother more on that level. Going to the club wasnt bad because it sort of broke any shyness or uncomfortable feeling because we seemed to be physically attracted , i hope she was, got to casually talk, and i met her brother and her friends. Im just praying i do everything right because i feel like they all liked me a lot and were even pushing us to go on another real date actually haha.

 

I will definitely kiss her. Hopefully she accepts and we go out again

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Hey you got GF approval, that's a leg up in the good impression dept. Carry on, everything looks like a go.

 

Thank you! I think everything went as good as it can, i just feel like something always ruins it for me somehow lol. Her friends and even 1 of her brothers were with us, and they all seemed to like me which should be a good sign!

 

Asking out for a date this weekend. Im praying.

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