Confused98765 Posted May 18, 2018 Share Posted May 18, 2018 There is this guy I've been speaking to for three months now and we have seen eachother on two proper dates and and three brief chats. Now I asked him if he would like to go to dinner sometime and he responded with a 'yeah maybe. Would like to catch up again' and I said 'awsome let me know if you do' to which he never replied. Was this a brush off by him I felt the maybe was weird and should I go NC now? I tend to snapchat him daily Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted May 18, 2018 Share Posted May 18, 2018 There is this guy I've been speaking to for three months now and we have seen eachother on two proper dates and and three brief chats. Now I asked him if he would like to go to dinner sometime and he responded with a 'yeah maybe. Would like to catch up again' and I said 'awsome let me know if you do' to which he never replied. Was this a brush off by him I felt the maybe was weird and should I go NC now? I tend to snapchat him daily You do realize if he's snapchatting with you, he's probably snapchatting with other girls. He has, in his mind, girl #1, #2, #3, etc. Not sure which one you think you are, but TBH, you are not #1. If you were he wouldn't be blowing you off easily. He's be literally chasing you a lot. Take it from a long time veteran here. Don't chase something that doesn't want to be chased by you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 18, 2018 Share Posted May 18, 2018 I wouldn't jump to NC but I would never chat with anybody daily. It's smothering. Dial it back to once a week & see what happens. If you still get nothing, move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted May 18, 2018 Share Posted May 18, 2018 There is this guy I've been speaking to for three months now and we have seen eachother on two proper dates and and three brief chats. Now I asked him if he would like to go to dinner sometime and he responded with a 'yeah maybe. Would like to catch up again' and I said 'awsome let me know if you do' to which he never replied. Was this a brush off by him I felt the maybe was weird and should I go NC now? I tend to snapchat him daily It doesn’t sound like he’s very interested. Lukewarm and likely dating others. Channel your attention elsewhere. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted May 18, 2018 Share Posted May 18, 2018 I've never had someone who was interested in spending time with me say, "yeah maybe." 3 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 He's not really even interested. If he was, you'd know it, and you wouldn't have to be doing the initiating. Just forget about him and spend your time out trying to meet a guy in real life. Link to post Share on other sites
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