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Old 30th April 2005, 11:07 AM   #1
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When to invite her to my place for a dinner


Actually I came form a country with different background in terms of relationships. Now I am dating a French girl who broke up with her boyfriend 3 weeks ago. We had so far two meetings on a cup of coffee (4 hours meetings) and tomorrow we will have a dinner and go to the theatre to watch a movie. I am wondering when can I invite her for a dinner at my house. I don't want to move quickly and hurt the relationship but I am wondering , in general, when should I invite her?
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Old 30th April 2005, 11:14 AM   #2
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I would do a few more dates in public so she is comfortable with you. Then I would invite her over for dinner. Take it slow...too soon might make her think that you are trying to get serious too early. Since she just broke up with her boyfriend. You don't want to be in the "Rebound" position. That is something you don't want!
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