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Old 18th February 2015, 7:16 AM   #1
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Why do I mainly attract guys I'm not interested in & not the ones I am interested in?

Why are guys I'm interested in, not interested in me but guys I'm either not interested in or mildly interested in, are chasing after me all the time?
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Old 18th February 2015, 8:28 AM   #2
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Do you act confident & carefree around the ones you aren't interested in but clam up & act weird around the guys you like? When I was younger, I know I did that.
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Old 18th February 2015, 8:33 AM   #3
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Do you act confident & carefree around the ones you aren't interested in but clam up & act weird around the guys you like? When I was younger, I know I did that.
I have always had this exact problem. When I am around guys I like or even people I respect, I clam up and act anxious and weird. When I am not into a guy, I am relaxed, fun and I attract those guys.
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Old 18th February 2015, 1:06 PM   #4
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You're probably chasing after guys out of your league.
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