Bantosm Posted February 15, 2014 Share Posted February 15, 2014 I met her about two months ago. We talked for probably a month before we started to hang out. After hanging out with her and some of her friends a few times, she seemed to be flirting with me more than some other guys so I went and asked her out. The first date no complaints we went to a movie and talked for a few hours. Then we talked throughout the week. We made plans for the second date. We go to a late lunch and then we go shopping at the mall. She reaches to hold my hand, so it looked like things were going fine. We kiss for a bit and talked about what to do on our next date. I get back home and check on facebook and she's written how she had such a great date with me and all her friends were making these romantic comments. Then I go on the next day and she has complete change of thought she notes that it was a strange date and was frightened. It didn't make any sense some of her friends were asking what happened and she said for them to call her. It's been four days now and I tried to call her but she has replied back. What gives? Link to post Share on other sites
Guitarisgood Posted February 15, 2014 Share Posted February 15, 2014 She's either lost interest or something has caught the back of her mind thats changed the dynamics of things. Remember girls are humans, they have their ups and downs and are not always happy joy keen as a bean to see you. They're emotional just like us. I always believe you should mirror your SO in situations like this. Give her space. Go out and socialise and make her see how much fun you are having and she may just get back to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ja123 Posted February 15, 2014 Share Posted February 15, 2014 Something is very weird about that. It's possibly due to a jealous ex who threatened her or something. But only she (or perhaps or friends) could tell you. Personally, I wouldn't contact her again and I'd move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Under The Radar Posted February 15, 2014 Share Posted February 15, 2014 She flaked for whatever reason as evidenced in not returning your call and the FB drama. After a first date, if there is good chemistry, things shouldn't be up in the air like this. It's already more work and anxiety then it's worth. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bantosm Posted February 16, 2014 Author Share Posted February 16, 2014 I still can't figure it out, but I'm leaving it alone. Link to post Share on other sites
blondiechika Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 Weird honestly Link to post Share on other sites
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