Southern Cal Dude Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 There seems to be some confusion when it comes to options. Some people seem to think when it comes to the opposite sex, an option is only when someone they find attractive shows interest. That's not the case. Even undesirables count, which many don't want to admit. For instance, say a gay guy shows interest in me. I'm not gay, but is he still an option? Yes. I wouldn't pursue that option, but it still exists. Same thing if a 300 pound woman showed interest. By definition, an option is where we have the power to choose. If you have the power to accept or reject one's advances, it's an option. Pursuing the option is another story and different from simply having the option. Not sure why people don't count certain options. They exist whether you like it or not. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetkiwi Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 I don't count people as "avenues" for sex or a relationship I am not interested in. Link to post Share on other sites
KungFuJoe Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 (edited) Yeah but if the attraction isn't mutual who cares. And I'm not about keeping score either Edited July 6, 2013 by KungFuJoe Link to post Share on other sites
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