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- dated a girl 2 months (6 months after she broke up her relationship of 4 years)

- we broke up because of her emotional baggage

- 2 months NC

- she contacted me, apologiezed, told me she got feelings for me

- agree to go for a drink but I made it very clear to take everything slow

- had a nice date, I went for a kiss but it ended making out

- she remembered me about taking things slow and smiled

 

Its been 2 days and I havent texted her yet. I dont want to appear overly interested, because i dont want to give her all the power like I did in the past. Also I want to see, if she is really over her ex before we have something serious.

 

Id like to hear some advice/opinion/experiences about this. How should i act, should i text her following days? Wait for her text? Id like to have a power in this situation, but how...

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Wait. Leave the ball in her court for now. If she has "got feelings" for you, she'll be in touch. You'll get the power back later. If you push now, she may flake on you again.

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maybe she doesnt want to text me because i told her about taking things slow and is waiting for me to proceed... When we started dating before break up, she was texting me constantly.

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