Azaroth Posted May 11, 2004 Share Posted May 11, 2004 Hey, Just thought I should drop you a line, I wasn't quite sure what to do after you had hung up on Monday. I'm really sorry about everything but everything I have been telling you has been true. Towards the end of the school year I realize I had been acting differently towards you--this was the same way in which I acted towards my ex-boyfriend towards the end of our relationship and this scared me a lot. Maybe it was because of the mess with **her roommates name** and I thought it would get better once we got home. I've lost a lot of trust these couple of months and it's going to take some time to get it back. I wish you would have known me before I came to **Name of College Town**--I was a much better person who wasn't nearly as selfish. This year changed me a lot and it wasn't really for the better. I think I need to get my head back together and right now probably isn't the best time for me to be in a relationship because of all that has happened--I know this is being extrememly selfish but I realize that the way I was treating you wasn't the best to be doing either. I know I have hurt you a lot and have made you wait so long and I am truly sorry. Please know that your friendship means everything to me. Please reply to this so that I know that I have the correct E-mail--you don't have to write anything if you don't want to, just press reply please. ~ (Her name) Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 Well, reply. Then say what you feel - if you're sorry she's deciding to slow things down, say that. If you feel she didn't hurt you, say that. If you accept her apology because she did hurt you, say that. Truth is always good. Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 Sounds like she is trying to adjust and is trying to be fair. I would reply with my feelings on the matter and let her know, but don't be too harsh... college can't always be easy. I am sorry, I hope it all works out Link to post Share on other sites
LILUIL Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 End of the day it's your decision. Can tell she's quite sincere and she's let out how she felt. So, it's okay for you to tell her honestly your thoughts. Link to post Share on other sites
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