0507 Posted November 8, 2012 Share Posted November 8, 2012 So I went out with this girl a bit over a week ago. We're in college together and we were friendly beforehand. I thought there was an attraction there from the start. We went out for dinner. She put a lot of effort into looking nice for the evening and I thought that we had a great time. She was going back to her home country the next day for a while. I sent her a text message the next morning telling her that I had a great time and we should do it again. She replied saying that she had a great time and she'd see me soon. Later that week she IM'ed me (we talk a lot over IM) about something to do with college. After I asked her if she wanted to go to see the fireworks that were on the night after she got back (thought that was a nice idea). She said that she had far too much college work. I'd say that's maybe half true. I ask when she might be free from doing work. She jokes that she'll be busy for the rest of the semester. The next time we're in college together I didn't get the chance to talk to her because I had to talk to the professor after class. Later that evening she IMs me saying "oh, I didn't get to say hi to you today, you ran out after class". Talked to her for a while and then said that it was a pity we missed the fireworks because she was studying. She says that she's not studying but that she felt sick that evening. So I said that we should do something later in the week and she said yeah. Next morning I sit next to her in class and after I ask her if she wants to get a coffee. She makes some stupid excuse about having to buy milk for her house! A few days later I ask her does she want to do something the next evening. She's too busy with college work again. I say maybe next week. She says yeah but that she isn't sure yet because she has more college work due. Don't think I need to say that I'm a bit confused. Thoughts? (Don't know if it makes any difference but she's from India). Link to post Share on other sites
Frank13 Posted November 8, 2012 Share Posted November 8, 2012 I agree. She lost interest in you. Her excuses are hints to you to leave her alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 0507 Posted November 8, 2012 Author Share Posted November 8, 2012 (edited) I don't mind chasing a girl. It's sort of fun really. But I'd always be a bit careful that some girls might just want the attention. And there's a point where you have to ask if a person is playing games or they're just stringing you along for the attention. And yeah, I'd agree that the excuses are just a "leave me alone" thing. But then she's always contacting me and asking me things and when I don't talk to her in class she's saying "you ran off after class" etc. Doesn't really add up... Edited November 8, 2012 by 0507 Link to post Share on other sites
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