freetolove Posted May 30, 2012 Share Posted May 30, 2012 There's a man who expressed interest in me that I am also interested in however, it seems as though some of the initial fire has died down, should I chase after him (e.g. call him, ask him to do something). Overall I'm use to the guy asking me out BUT it's a new time/age. What do you guys think? A lot of advice I get is just wait or move on to the next one. That means that I can only chose from a pool of men who want to go out with me, what about who I want to date? He recently went traveling so he'll be gone for 3 weeks, this gives me time to decide to move on put surprise him with something fun when he gets back, we went on a few dates but he seemed preoccupied with his travel plans recently OR he lost interest, I'm unsure of which one. The last few dates for the most part, I let him take the lead. I haven't asked him out or anything but have expressed interest. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted June 1, 2012 Share Posted June 1, 2012 If he initiated the first few dates, I see nothing wrong with you initiating one now. Doing that isn't CHASING. Continuing to ask him / contact him if he blows you off or flakes...THAT is chasing. Link to post Share on other sites
hiimgerman Posted June 1, 2012 Share Posted June 1, 2012 Go for it =) You have nothing to lose and everything to gain =) Link to post Share on other sites
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