AH1990 Posted October 26, 2011 Share Posted October 26, 2011 Some of you may know that a while back I was having some problems with this one girl in particular. She tried throwing the 'friends' thing on me, even after she had got a bf. And she still doesn't understand why I didn't want to accept friends with her. Well last Tuesday she came back. And she came back in full force. After a few days of texting back and forth I asked her out to dinner (we went last night). She accepted! The days prior to the date she kept asking me about it, and she was asking me if I still wanted to go, telling me she was excited to see me etc. Well the date went really good. I took her out to a nice restaurant and we had lots of fun. Talking about anything and everything. We were always poking fun at each other and being pretty flirty. Then comes the time when I go to drop her off. I lean in to give her a hug and it just happened. My god she's a good kisser . 20 seconds later she leans back and in the softest voice says "goodbye sweetie". Or so I think , sure sounded like that though. Now I haven't really asked a girl out in a long time. I remember when I was 16 I asked this girl if she wanted to be my girlfriend. I remember the exact day/time/place, everything about it. I made that day special in both our minds. That's how I remember doing it. But how is it done these days? How do I go about asking her? Any advice from anyone is appreciated!! Link to post Share on other sites
thatone Posted October 26, 2011 Share Posted October 26, 2011 don't put any undue pressure on yourselves at this point. save that conversation for a month or two down the line. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AH1990 Posted October 26, 2011 Author Share Posted October 26, 2011 don't put any undue pressure on yourselves at this point. save that conversation for a month or two down the line. I was kinda thinking that. I didn't want to put a label on us so quickly. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AH1990 Posted October 26, 2011 Author Share Posted October 26, 2011 When should I ask her out again? Would this Friday be too soon? Link to post Share on other sites
thatone Posted October 26, 2011 Share Posted October 26, 2011 should've asked her out before you left the last time. no reason to wait around when you know what you want, go get it. Link to post Share on other sites
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