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Old 7th October 2011, 3:37 PM   #1
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dating turn offs?

for men: if you meet a woman and find out she is unemployed is it a turnoff?
also what jobs that a woman wouldhave would be a dealbraker?
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Old 7th October 2011, 3:45 PM   #2
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Old 7th October 2011, 3:50 PM   #3
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well, obviously you didnt read the question because i asked what JOBS turn off men and if a woman you meet is unemployed would you still date her?
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Old 7th October 2011, 4:04 PM   #4
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Unemployed is not a deal-breaker. Lazy and selfish is.

Occupations that are a turn off include:

police
corrections
military
inker
she can look like Gillian Michaels, just not BE Gillian Michaels (if you know what I mean)

sky dive instructor
lumberjack
right wing talk show host
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Old 7th October 2011, 4:04 PM   #5
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for men: if you meet a woman and find out she is unemployed is it a turnoff?
also what jobs that a woman wouldhave would be a dealbraker?

In this economy???? And how alot of people are struggling.....you have got to be kidding with this question.......a little shallow??
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for men: if you meet a woman and find out she is unemployed is it a turnoff?
also what jobs that a woman wouldhave would be a dealbraker?
Is she actively looking and taking care of herself?

I was off work over 7 months and spent that time working out at the gym, getting in the best shape of my life and looking for a job.

I started dating my current man during that time. I took the time I was off to turn my life and attitude around...it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Good thing my man didn't exclude me for being unemployed.

It's what you do with your time off that matters.
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Old 7th October 2011, 9:34 PM   #7
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Nothing is a dealbreaker depending on the other aspects of a person's personality.

Wait... wait. Stripper is a deal-breaker. Unless she's into Heidegger...
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In this economy???? And how alot of people are struggling.....you have got to be kidding with this question.......a little shallow??
A little shallow? I find the OP's question totally reasonable to ask.
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