PratyekaYana Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 I'm curious as to whether or not there are any men or women present on this forum who will readily admit to having executed the bait and switch tactic to secure their former or current relationships with their significant others. With what level of awareness did you enact this strategy? Did you perform certain sexual acts or with a certain frequency specifically to trap your partner through deception, or was it the result of a severe lack of introspection (ex: you didn't know yourself well enough to realize how little you cared for sex, but you allowed your partner's libido to dictate yours until you couldn't stand the self-deception any longer)? To what degree do you expect your partner's loyalty to the relationship given its establishment under false pretenses? Because the population sample for the first series of questions will likely be comparatively smaller, I'd also like to expand the question by reaching out to those who have been victimized by the bait and switch tactic? How have you coped with having suffered such deception? Upon discovery, did you immediately leave your partner, as an example, or are you for whatever reason prevented from taking such a course of action? Link to post Share on other sites
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