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what is his motive?


jm07

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Hi,

 

I went out with this guy on several dates and things were going well. He started contacting me less and after our last date 3 weeks ago I figured that was the last time id hear from him.

 

He contacted me 4 days after that date just asking how I was etc. I told him that I had thought about contacting him and he asked me what was holding me back. So I assumed he was still interested, but he said he was too busy that weekend to hang out and that "we'd see" about the next week.

 

Naturally, I figured he was totally not into me, so I didn't think id hear from him again, but then he contacted me this week again just asking how my week had been, but not trying to make plans or really talk to me. What does he want?

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Well I can take a stab at this. He may have been too keen in the past with girls he's liked and felt he's ruined the relationship, so now he's taking it slow.

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