depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 Well I have just returned from a night on the town with some girlfriends, had fun and a dance. But with my current romantic uncertaintly looming over my head I had my eye open for talent and realised I am really fussy. There are very few people that turned my head. I don't really have a type as such other than confident looking but there seemed a drought tonight and it was really busy. So I just carried on dancing. Anyone else really fussy? Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 Yes, when it comes to randoms. Less so in more structured situations. Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 Coco, there could be some work for you in illegal porn movies. Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 Deeply, unequivocably, celibately fussy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 If that is you in the avvie I wouldn't mind doing illegal porn with you.... Do you have a huge cock and balls? That is me and i've been told i've got big balls but my cock is inverted. Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 Deeply, unequivocably, celibately fussy. Does it bother you that you're so fussy, or you see it as a positive? Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 Does it bother you that you're so fussy, or you see it as a positive? It only bothers me that I am celibate as a result. Otherwise, nah. I know what's out there. And I think I'm fussy in the right way. Not so much superficial but does this guy have the stamina to go the distance. Though now that I think about it, my friends would disagree and say I'm slightly superficial and prefer pretty boys. Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 Like a party blow out and make an annoying horn sound. Oe er! Deal then Coco, let's do this!! Daphne - I am fussy about everything, but I am highly sexed so do need the physical attraction too. I'm doomed. Celibates United? Link to post Share on other sites
Nexus One Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 I've had roughly 10 women catch my eye the past month, so no I've had quite the opposite experience. Did I pursue? No. - The first one said she had a boyfriend, but felt the need to tell that it wasn't "serious". So that was too vague and I'm not going to come between two lovers. - The second one lives far away, I'd fly over in a heartbeat, but I got hold of her schedule and damn she's so busy. I couldn't get a pin between it if I tried. - The third one just broke up with her boyfriend 3 weeks ago, too freshly wounded. Plus I don't know where she is right now. - The fourth owns her own company and she and I conducted business with each other, but I have no idea where she is now, might see her next winter at the earliest, when the next meeting is planned. - The fifth approached me when I was in a hurry. Damn she would have gotten me if she tried at any other time. As we met randomly I have no idea where she is exactly, only the general area. - The fifth and sixth were in a hurry themselves and I don't pursue on women who are in a hurry, because in such a situation I like them to focus. Another time perhaps. - The seventh wanted to start out as friends with an option for more, but mentioned that all her past male friendships were a disappointment. Didn't pursue due to that remark. - The eighth was a former colleague who initiated me at a moment is was busy and concentrated. She asked me out on a date. I couldn't give her an answer at that moment, had other things on my mind that very second. I felt bad for her, because it came across as if I didn't find her attractive, which wasn't the case, she just asked at the wrong time. I might go out with her if she asked me again, but as we are former colleagues I have no idea where she is right now. And there were several others. But these past two months women had me distracted. So much in fact that I have trouble focusing and concentrating on work. Which doesn't happen to me very often. It even has me posting here on LS, even though I have stuff to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 Nexus the magnet!! I think you are going to have to start putting location chips in these women so you can fiind them again. Link to post Share on other sites
Knittress Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 (edited) Ugh, yes. I'll only go for someone that I consider above-average in handsomeness, intelligence, warmth and who is at least moderately ambitious and successful. I don't really hold out for 'the best' or anything, but it's not too common for a person to meet my minimum standards. Although, amusingly enough, there were some sweet nerd-boys who WOULD have if they'd have manned up and made a move... Yeah. I almost never see any action. Edited January 30, 2011 by Knittress Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 Oh dear it's not looking good for me unless I drop my standards. Let's see how I feel in another couple of weeks when I'm starting to climb the walls!! Doesn't help that the last guy I was seeing is a god. I'll get my fighting spirit back for it all, I always do! Link to post Share on other sites
TheWatcher Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 (edited) Oh dear it's not looking good for me unless I drop my standards. Let's see how I feel in another couple of weeks when I'm starting to climb the walls!! Doesn't help that the last guy I was seeing is a god. I'll get my fighting spirit back for it all, I always do! Depplover, Daphne...don't lose faith. Mr.Perfect is out there. Your 6'2,perfectly sculpted,ambitious,successful,funny,slice of heaven does exist. And please don't ever compromise on your list in any way whatsoever,not one iota..hold out for perfect or the closest that you can possibly come to it.Depplover..you've already met one god...I'm sure that there are many more out there. Your trophy is out there somewhere ladies... go out and claim him. Edited January 30, 2011 by TheWatcher Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 You are most kind Watcher. I don't mind the height though as long he is taller than my 5ft 8! Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 Your trophy is out there somewhere ladies... go out and claim him. Where's the address for gps? Depp - working on not being celibate. If I weren't so picky I'd date my sex profile guy! (I don't have a profile he does..) Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 Where's the address for gps? Depp - working on not being celibate. If I weren't so picky I'd date my sex profile guy! (I don't have a profile he does..) Tell me more, whats your sex profile guy? Do I need one? Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 Tell me more, whats your sex profile guy? Do I need one? The guy looked perfect on paper. Best thing I've seen online since I started. But something wasn't right. I googled his online name, by chance, and it showed me his multiple sex site profiles. It was crazy! He liked sex with lots of people and I don't know what alternative means but I'm thinking midgets and whips and candle wax are involved. Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 :bunny: GUTTED!!! I can't even advise you on that one because there is nothing I can say. But if you start climbing the walls... Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 :bunny: GUTTED!!! I can't even advise you on that one because there is nothing I can say. But if you start climbing the walls... I've always enjoyed risky sexual behavior. A guy friend of mine told me that a large % of guys actually do this. I may be naive, but I think he's just saying that cos he did it when he was married & things were getting rocky & he liked to justify it to himself. Or, there really are a lot of guys who go on adultfriendfinder et al and hook up with whoever's on there. Link to post Share on other sites
TheWatcher Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 (edited) You are most kind Watcher. I don't mind the height though as long he is taller than my 5ft 8! Depp,Daphne....I was being a bit faceitous/snarky(?) with my original response I really do hope that you find what you've been seeking;I wish no ill for anyone in their search for love/companionship.Even though I don't believe in there's someone out there for everybody ( not for men,anyways );I Hope you'll meet someone who'll fill all of the requirements on your list. Good luck ! Edited January 30, 2011 by TheWatcher Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 I wouldn't use the term fussy on myself. I AM discerning however. I don't encourage someone who I'm not really drawn to. Link to post Share on other sites
Author depplover_1980 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Share Posted January 30, 2011 Daphne - I am sure there are lots of married men that use those sites as adultery is common but there are prob a lot of women doing the deed too, after all these men are getting the stash of sluts from somewhere. The Watcher - I deliberately mentioned the height, I knew what you were getting at you cheeky one. Frisky risky - I think that is probably because you are a confident man that does not need the flirtations of unnecessary women to make yourself feel masculine. Or that you're kind and know it is never good to lead someone down a deadend!!! Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 Depp,Daphne....I was being a bit faceitous/snarky(?) with my original response I kinda got that but I was overlooking it cos it wasn't totally mean spirited. Plus, since you don't really know what I'm looking for, why would I care if you are being snarky? Link to post Share on other sites
EasyHeart Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 I am way too picky. I will not date someone unless she is: 1. Single 2. Female 3. Under 250 lbs. Maybe I should settle for 2 out of 3? Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 I am way too picky. I will not date someone unless she is: 1. Single 2. Female 3. Under 250 lbs. Maybe I should settle for 2 out of 3? Whatever you do, keep #3. Link to post Share on other sites
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