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LostInLA

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Ahhhh dating!!!!

 

I feel so completely new at this. My last relationship, which ended over a year ago, lasted 10 years. I did my best after the break up to get over it, heal, and be happy single.

 

And you know what, I HAVE been happy being single. It's the darndest thing!

 

So, of course when you aren't looking, you meet someone, right? Right!

 

I met this guy a little over a month ago. Things have been slow-going which is absolutely fine by me. I'm TERRIFIED of getting into something. BUT...I'm really enjoying our dates.

 

Another BUT....I'm concerned that it hasn't been long since his break up. CRUD!!!! Huge chance for rebounding here!!!

 

So, what do I do? We are taking it slow, so that's fine. I'm scared of getting hurt though.

 

Are there warning signs/red flags I should look for?

 

How long do I give this? Part of me feels like I don't really have time to waste if this is doomed from the beginning, you know?

 

Blah!

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skydiveaddict

Hey, if you're having fun just go with it. You are worrying too much

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Hey, if you're having fun just go with it. You are worrying too much

 

Heh, I'm just having a concerned moment. For the most part I'm fine with this situation as it is, but of course if I start thinking about the months ahead I get scared!

 

I just really hope this doesn't end up being some kind of rebound. :(

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