Lucky555 Posted April 16, 2010 Share Posted April 16, 2010 why is it that guys will pursue a woman just because she has not had contact with them. Its like they operate like a rubber band. Is this player behavior, lack of interest, or for their ego? After reading a dating book it says that men who operate like a rubber band are not the one for you because once they have you they will no longer be interested in you. What do you all think? Link to post Share on other sites
boogieboy Posted April 16, 2010 Share Posted April 16, 2010 A guy will not pursue a woman JUST because she doesnt contact him. If a guy plays the rubber band with you, he wasnt that interested to begin with. But if you come on too strong, you could turn a guy off as well. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted April 16, 2010 Share Posted April 16, 2010 It describes a lot of men I've known, there is no doubt about that...they are interested, just not interested enough as far as I'm concerned. These are the guys that only want you at convenient times for THEM. A guy that really wants you looks at your convenience too. Link to post Share on other sites
sullysteve Posted April 16, 2010 Share Posted April 16, 2010 I don't think this applies only to men; women do it too. It's all about challenge. Some people respond to challenge by trying harder; when something's harder to get, they want it even more. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 I don't think this applies only to men; women do it too. It's all about challenge. Some people respond to challenge by trying harder; when something's harder to get, they want it even more. Absolutely women are just as capable of being this way... Link to post Share on other sites
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