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1. A woman who has a desire to control my life.

 

2. A woman who will bitch at me and call me names.

 

3. A woman who will remind me everyday as to how lucky I am to be with her.

 

4. Blond hair women.

 

5. Blue or green eyed women.

 

6. Caucasion women.

 

7. Tall women. Just as tall as me or taller.

 

8. Women serving in the military

 

9. Women who have no problem letting me open doors and pulling out chairs for them.

 

10. Women who are bisexual.

 

11. Women who will lick another woman's nipples or another guy's nipples for that matter.

 

12. Free spirited woman.

 

What turns me off from women:

 

1. Women who want to cook me a meal.

 

2. Women who want to buy me gifts for birthdays or christmas or other occasions.

 

3. Women who don't get jealous when I talk to my female friends. They are boring.

 

4. Women who ask for money.

 

5. Religious women.

 

6. Women who think sex is the most important aspect of the relationship.

 

7. Women who just want to sit at home on their vacation and never go out and explore the world. I can't stand being under house arrest all day long on my days off and vacations. I get depressed if I don't go out at least once a day.

 

If I think of some more I'll let you know.

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1. A woman who has a desire to control my life.

 

2. A woman who will bitch at me and call me names.

 

3. A woman who will remind me everyday as to how lucky I am to be with her.

 

4. Blond hair women.

 

5. Blue or green eyed women.

 

6. Caucasion women.

 

7. Tall women. Just as tall as me or taller.

 

8. Women serving in the military

 

9. Women who have no problem letting me open doors and pulling out chairs for them.

 

10. Women who are bisexual.

 

11. Women who will lick another woman's nipples or another guy's nipples for that matter.

 

12. Free spirited woman.

 

What turns me off from women:

 

1. Women who want to cook me a meal.

 

2. Women who want to buy me gifts for birthdays or christmas or other occasions.

 

3. Women who don't get jealous when I talk to my female friends. They are boring.

 

4. Women who ask for money.

 

5. Religious women.

 

6. Women who think sex is the most important aspect of the relationship.

 

7. Women who just want to sit at home on their vacation and never go out and explore the world. I can't stand being under house arrest all day long on my days off and vacations. I get depressed if I don't go out at least once a day.

 

If I think of some more I'll let you know.

 

 

Have you tried pulling her chair and as she goes to sit down you pull it some more?:bunny:

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Nope. I slowly push it in as she goes to sit down. There's lots of good old stuff from the 50s that need to be brought back in the dating world today.

 

I think all the 50s chilvary of opening doors for a lady and pulling her chair out would be cool as long as we took all the sexism and male chuvanism out of the equation.

 

There were some good things from the old days and some things not so good. I'm all for the feminist movement and women being the head of the household and taking other leadership roles.

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Here is what I think has to be the most undesirable traits of Chris.

 

1. He's a doormat.

 

2. He needs to fix his attic.

 

3. He wants to be controlled.

 

4. He thinks that two condoms work better then one.

 

5. He will not accept loving gestures from his gf (should he get one).

 

6. He's a doormat

 

7. He's a doormat

 

8. Oh yeah, he's a doormat.

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If those are the qualities that make you happy then more power to you. Usually the qualities we find attractive in a mate are qualities we've observed in one of our parents.

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Here is what I think has to be the most undesirable traits of Chris.

 

1. He's a doormat.

 

2. He needs to fix his attic.

 

3. He wants to be controlled.

 

4. He thinks that two condoms work better then one.

 

5. He will not accept loving gestures from his gf (should he get one).

 

6. He's a doormat

 

7. He's a doormat

 

8. Oh yeah, he's a doormat.

 

 

Being selective about which battles I will fight is a part of who I am. I cannot change that. I see nothing wrong with it.

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:lmao::lmao::lmao: I'm sitting in a back office here at work by myself - laughed so hard I snorted just as one of my co-workers came through the door. :lmao::lmao::lmao:OMG...thanks for brightening my night.
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A woman who will lecture me when I've done something wrong is another attractive quality. Especially if she tells me "you should consider yourself lucky that I'm giving you a lecture instead of leaving you."

 

Military women are more inclined to lecture their SO when he's done something wrong and be a bit pushy. Men should consider themselves lucky if their girlfriend lectures & preaches to him for an hour about how he's cutting up the red meat for dinner the wrong way.

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Well, well, well......

 

You have come to the right person!

 

Now get your a*s of this dam* computer and go out and do something productive you ****!

 

Quit wasting all of our time with your ******* threads!

 

How did I do? :D:D

 

 

ps--You are dam* lucky I took time out of my busy day to answer you, you ******* *****!!!:D:D

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Sadly, I know a woman who meets almost all of these criteria. I can't stand her.

 

Unfortunately, Chris, she's married. But that doesn't stop her from talking about all the men who are in love with her and find her hot.

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Is that list a weird joke? I don't know too many guys who like women who try to control them or who bitch at them. Also, what kind of a guy would like it if his girlfriend licked another man's nipples?

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1. A woman who has a desire to control my life.

 

2. A woman who will bitch at me and call me names.

 

3. A woman who will remind me everyday as to how lucky I am to be with her.

 

4. Blond hair women.

 

5. Blue or green eyed women.

 

6. Caucasion women.

 

7. Tall women. Just as tall as me or taller.

 

8. Women serving in the military

 

9. Women who have no problem letting me open doors and pulling out chairs for them.

 

10. Women who are bisexual.

 

11. Women who will lick another woman's nipples or another guy's nipples for that matter.

 

12. Free spirited woman.

 

What turns me off from women:

 

1. Women who want to cook me a meal.

 

2. Women who want to buy me gifts for birthdays or christmas or other occasions.

 

3. Women who don't get jealous when I talk to my female friends. They are boring.

 

4. Women who ask for money.

 

5. Religious women.

 

6. Women who think sex is the most important aspect of the relationship.

 

7. Women who just want to sit at home on their vacation and never go out and explore the world. I can't stand being under house arrest all day long on my days off and vacations. I get depressed if I don't go out at least once a day.

 

If I think of some more I'll let you know.

 

1 and 12 - opposite ends of the spectrum

 

11 - wake up, this is real life not a porno film, its never likely too happen especially as you finding your ideal women is never going to happen so its two fold

 

2 - wanting that is just mixed up, plain and simple

 

 

Makes just as much sense as your post about dating tips ~ not really much sense at all for 98% of the human race. I am sure there are some odd types similar but doubt that many are on here.

 

I think you might of had some problems earlier in your life and might want too seek professional help (no joke) counselling might help you work through some if these issues.

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Neither one of my parents have the qualities I'm looking for in a girl. They were never controlling of my life.

 

 

Seeing as one was probably a man and you are attracted to women........

 

Do I have to say more?

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1 and 12 - opposite ends of the spectrum

 

11 - wake up, this is real life not a porno film, its never likely too happen especially as you finding your ideal women is never going to happen so its two fold

 

2 - wanting that is just mixed up, plain and simple

 

 

Makes just as much sense as your post about dating tips ~ not really much sense at all for 98% of the human race. I am sure there are some odd types similar but doubt that many are on here.

 

I think you might of had some problems earlier in your life and might want too seek professional help (no joke) counselling might help you work through some if these issues.

 

 

You think I need professional help just because I don't conform to what society says I should or should not be attracted to in a woman.

 

Well I'm not about to waste money on therapy just for following my heart. Everybody is attracted to different things for different reasons.

 

I cannot speak for all men as to what men want from a woman. Women cannot speak for all women either.

 

I have my reasons for being attracted to certain traits that may otherwise turn some of my friends off and vice versa. It does not make either one of us right or wrong or crazy. It just is.

 

There will always be women outside of my league. That's a realistic outlook. I cannot have any woman I want. The trick is to find those women who are within my league.

 

For example if I'm a smoker then the solution is to find a woman who smokes and has no desire to quit. It's all about compatibility. If she were to reject me for my smoking habit then she would be a hypocrite in which case I would not want to be with her since I don't date hypocrites anyway.

 

I never put a higher standard on someone else than what I'm putting on myself. If anything I set lower standards for others than I do for myself just to be on the safe side. I don't smoke but I would not have a problem dating a smoker. I would not require her to quit before she goes out with me.

 

If I'm an alcoholic the solution is to date only alcoholics who also are not looking to quit drinking anytime soon. If I'm lazy and have no ambition then I need to date someone who is also lazy and has no ambition. Why must I assume I'm the only one in the world who has these weaknesses?

 

The solution is not to change who I am (quit the smoking habit) in order to get more girls (although I could do that too but eventually they would see right through it that I quit just for them and not for health reasons) but rather to put myself with those women who would have no problem dating me.

 

Professional help is only necessary for those people who are a danger to the rest of society and doing illegal activities. You have your list of deal-breakers too. I'm not going to say you need help just because your list is different than mine.

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Professional help is only necessary for those people who are a danger to the rest of society and doing illegal activities. You have your list of deal-breakers too. I'm not going to say you need help just because your list is different than mine.

 

That is not true, professional help in the form of counselling or therapist is actually very useful for anyone, no matter who you are or what issues you may or may not have.

 

It was not meant as a derogitory comment which assume is how you have taken it from your comments, as a suggestion, contructive advice. Alot of people have therapy or have had it at somepoint in their lives. Your thoughts about it are very closed off.

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That is not true, professional help in the form of counselling or therapist is actually very useful for anyone, no matter who you are or what issues you may or may not have.

 

It was not meant as a derogitory comment which assume is how you have taken it from your comments, as a suggestion, contructive advice. Alot of people have therapy or have had it at somepoint in their lives. Your thoughts about it are very closed off.

 

Unless I'm making the rest of society suffer then it would be a waste of time and money for me to go get therapy. It will not benefit me at all.

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