Brady_to_Moss Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 Last night we had a great night. Making out and flirting hardcore..we have been seeing eachother for like 5 days strait now and txting how much we like each other. Now shes just acting werid like not txting back the things she would use to txt back...we were supose to hangout today and now i dont think we are....what the hell?? Why are girls so hard to figure out!! Link to post Share on other sites
bubblegum Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 Maybe she has plans tonight and doesn't know how to tell you? Link to post Share on other sites
fivefive Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 dude dont overdo it. it seems like ur constantly talking to her through texting. stop texting her for a couple days. give her some space. its ur neediness and wanting to talk that is probably driving her away. ive done this numerous times and believe me if you ignore talking to her for a couple days she'll wonder why Link to post Share on other sites
GoneButNotForgotten Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 Don't ignore. But don't be so damn available. You cannot act as if you spend every waking moment idolizing someone. First, it's just not healthy. Second, it can scare the crap out of them. You are too available. Girls, just like guys, do prefer a challenge. It sounds funny but rarely do girls like the guy that will drop everything in an instant. Go out with some friends. Hang out. Go spend a few hours playing video games or something. But the key is just don't be so available. If you get a text from her wait 30 minutes or more before you respond to it. As much as everyone says they hate playing games. It is just how it works. The human brain is incredibly complex. A little bit of psychology will go a long way for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Jims555 Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 have to agree with gonebutnotforgotten, dont be so available. when you first meet someone, all those happy feelings rush in and you want to be with them all the time. but the two of you are not ready to spend eveyday together. (and i don't mean you personally, you as in people in this situation) how's the saying go? the brightest light burns the fastest. you two went from strangers to married in a week. slow it down. the next time she tries to make a date with you, tell her no. tell her you're going out with the guys that night (a good catch all), but you'd like to see her *this* day. chicks dig guys that have a life. so at least appear to have one if you don't. and if you're the one to always initiate text-chats, quit that too. tone it down to a 50/50 range at first then a 70her/30you. the more unavailable you are (within reason) the more she'll want you. Link to post Share on other sites
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