goldencloud Posted October 27, 2008 Share Posted October 27, 2008 You guys, so ive been dating this guy for 3 weeks , we;ve spent like pretty much every weekend together..he calls everyday etc...earlier he called and we chatted..he accidently slipped he was my bf, but then retreated when i said my what?(in a jokey manner)..(he knows ireally like him)...anyways once we were off the phone i wrote a jokey message on his my space wall 'i wuz here 28/10/08)....and this is the convo that happened right after it..please read and advice, i dont want to get my heart broken and get into something that may lead to nothing HIM- You getting territorial on my wall? ME-yes doth thou protest HIM-No but I do find it amusing - I'm not really a fan of the wall and open communications. ME-I wuz here=hardly open communication unless of course your interpretation of open communication is very different from mine! HIM-By open I mean that it's visible to all ! ME-ooh that makes more sense! u=undercover forever aka coy me=fan of useless prattle aka not so coy HIM-I'm a firm believer in discretion! ME-well to be honest so am i but to a degree but am a bit confused, does this mean that everything=forever shrouded behind a cloak of secrecy? HIM-Easy on the equations there kid. No it does not mean that - but then again I don't want to be publicly signalling the existence of something not yet defined if you see what I mean? ME-yeah i see what u mean... but uh that message of mine on your wall wasn't meant to signify anything...it was quite blankly...just a message without these silent themes/undertones u think it carries. HIM-Yeah I know but perception is everything - I guess I'm just a bit cagey about it appearing funny when we've not really decided about our relationship and where it is going yet. ME-true, honestly things happen as they happen, there is no step process or guide line etc... but at same time i just get the feeling (and correct me if im wrong) that you think im somehow trying to nail u into a relationship with me. honestly im not the type to play games, or run in circles. i really do like you, and naturally as a result of this i do want this to go somewhere but i believe these things happen naturally...what do u think Link to post Share on other sites
CommitmentPhobe Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 He's being a bit ridiculous. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 I never talked like that, even when I was young and blatantly stupid about women. No wonder kids think we old farts talk some alien language I'd give him a silence sandwich just out of confusion Link to post Share on other sites
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 I never talked like that, even when I was young and blatantly stupid about women. No wonder kids think we old farts talk some alien language I'd give him a silence sandwich just out of confusion I second that. You did nothing wrong. That message could have been left by anyone- gf, friend, parent! There is nothing there that signifies anything between the two of you. He's being a bit annoying. I would back off for a bit. Link to post Share on other sites
Author goldencloud Posted October 28, 2008 Author Share Posted October 28, 2008 i'm supposed to meet him tomorrow...should i go? he generally calls me each evening, should i even pick up? u know he hasn't even replied to my last message yet:mad: Link to post Share on other sites
manugeorge Posted October 28, 2008 Share Posted October 28, 2008 It's sketchy alright and me thinks that there are others in the background on myspace...perhaps even a girlfriend, and he doesn't want you all running into each other in cyberworld. "I wuz here" hardly constitutes a roof top declaration and for him to be so easily rattled by something so innocent means he is hiding something...or someone. I'd tread carefully if I were you. Link to post Share on other sites
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