That Feeling

[g29er]

I'm new to the forum,but I have been a lurker for a while, and I think its amazing that there is a sight like this to help people with that crazy little thing called love. I have something of a predicament on my hands that I would like to share with you all and hopefully some of you can help. I work as an admissions adviser at a business college. I see and talk to students all day long. Some of the women that attend are very attractive but I pay them no mind.

 

 

Today this girl walks into my office and I interviewed her. Now, I have only experienced this feeling only a few other times in my life, and I was right about it. But when I first layed eyes on her, I thought she was the most amazing person I have ever seen and spoken to. I got that feeling....you know the one in the pit of your stomach. We had a great conversation and I could feel that she sort of felt the same way. I also found out from her that she lives bascially right around the corner from me. For some reason I cant stop thinking about her.

 

 

There is no written rule about dating students,(even though I would like to keep it quite) and in the past I have never considered it. But I have to got to get to know this person. During our conversation she also revealed where she works at. Im 28 and she is 21. I have been told that I am a good looking guy, and part of my job is speaking in front of people and I am a talker. But when it comes to things like this, I am something of a wuss.

 

How should I approach this?? I really want to go up to her work and ask her on a date, and sort of explain myself in a not-so-over-bearing way. If she says no and I am wrong, then I would let her know that things will not be weird.

 

I just have this feeling, and maybe she feels it to. I know that life is short, and sometimes you have to break down walls and go after what you want. I cant let her pass by without at least knowing. I have to know, because this feeling is very strong for someone I have only met once. It is a little scary.

 

So does anyone have any suggestions on how approach this. What do I say and how do I not freak her out? I want to be sincere and get my point across to her without sounding weird or having it come out like Marty Mcfly. I want her to know that she is truly amazing without being like I said, over-bearing, I really need some help on this one guys if you could please........ Thank you so much.

[ianandris]

Don't be overcome with feelings. Chances are if you're feeling, she's feeling it, too, so there's no need to rush bearing your heart and soul. In fact, keeping her guessing a little bit is exactly what you should do. Best thing is to treat it like any other date. Just be like, "Hey, I don't usually do this, but I'd really like to get to know you a little better. Would you be interested in grabbing some dinner on x at y o clock? Maybe a movie at my place after?" or whatever it is you do for your standard date. If she says no, ah well. Not a big deal. If she says yes, bro, you just effing won.

[mixwell]

Hmm seems like a pickle your in. I know its not good to mix business with pleasure but personally I would date someone I work with or teach if I were into them. I say give it a shot and ask her on a date but as long as you KNOW that it will not interfere with your teaching side of it you know ? Good luck and hope it works out well for you..

[manugeorge]

Don't be overcome with feelings. Chances are if you're feeling, she's feeling it, too, so there's no need to rush bearing your heart and soul. In fact, keeping her guessing a little bit is exactly what you should do. Best thing is to treat it like any other date. Just be like, "Hey, I don't usually do this, but I'd really like to get to know you a little better. Would you be interested in grabbing some dinner on x at y o clock? Maybe a movie at my place after?" or whatever it is you do for your standard date. If she says no, ah well. Not a big deal. If she says yes, bro, you just effing won.

 

Simple and to the point, I agree!.

[g29er]

Thanks for the input guys, I really appreciate it. I will definitely keep you posted. Friday is the day it goes down. Wish me luck.

 

"Your density has popped me to you." - Marty Mcfly