someone2 Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 ^topic! What goes through a girl's mind when she catches a guy checking out her breasts? I assume the answer will differ. What if the guy was trying to do it in a hidden way? What if it was just one glance? What if it happens 3 or 4 times in a row? Inquiring minds need to know! Thanks in advance Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 They're probably used to it and doing so gives them a good inditation of what your interest in them is, and it probably isn't WHO they are, but WHAT. Not a good way to garner their attention, eh? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 I think "Wow, this is the man for me"... Link to post Share on other sites
Darkzen Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 I'd guess that it depends on the girl in question. If she dresses in a way that shows off her body, she wants that type of attention. When I had a nice body, I used to wear tight T-shirts to show it off. The attention can get old after a while though, so if she's not into the guy checking her out, she will probably take slight offense. Link to post Share on other sites
MystifiedByMen Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 For me it's the 'creepy' vibe some guys give off. If I catch a guy taking quick glances now and then I think its cute, (if I'm interested) but if he gives out the creepy vibe, I get weirded out! If a guy just does not care that I know what he's doing, that's disrespectful and he won't get anywhere with me. If I'm interested and he thinks he's sneaky and I don't know what's going on, I think it's cute. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 In reality, I think...hmmm...do I want a man who's been weaned off breast milk too early? Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 This has been going on so long I never even notice it anymore, and if I see them glance, I just laugh ( inside) I haven't been offended by it yet, And, I ALSO know they are checking out my butt when I get up and walk somewhere. Guys will be guys. No offense to YOU, but to me it would be like getting offended if you pull out a steak around dogs...what do you expect ? Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 What goes through a girl's mind when she catches a guy checking out her breasts? Their small I know. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 I like to look at women's breasts but I have absolutely no idea why. I don't get excited about their fingers or their shoulders. But their ass and breasts have always fascinated me. Their breasts are particularly attractive if a good part of them are visible above their clothing. If they don't like that I look they should just stay inside at home. So sorry! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 I like to look at women's breasts but I have absolutely no idea why. I don't get excited about their fingers or their shoulders. But their ass and breasts have always fascinated me. Their breasts are particularly attractive if a good part of them are visible above their clothing. If they don't like that I look they should just stay inside at home. So sorry! So it's okay if we stare at your crotch and wonder what size? Link to post Share on other sites
artemis32 Posted September 23, 2007 Share Posted September 23, 2007 eww.. perv!! no, just kidding. i'm glad i still look good, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 It makes me feel sexy if a guy does it discretly. If it's done together with other flirting and I like the guy it can be seriously hot. But if I catch someone staring at them openly or a guy is say older than my father then I just think ewwww creepy. But I just want to add that regardless of who does it, if it's done often I think said guy finds me sexually attractive and wants to f%^& me. Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 I hate it. There have been instances when I had the urge to slap the man in question and ask him how he'd like it if I stared his crotch down. Of course, I say nothing and smile awkwardly. I always feel disappointed when a guy does this. It's like, "Hey ****er, my face is UP here!" I remember having this really nice conversation with a guy I used to work with. We discussed our majors and why we enjoy them. He sat there, looking intrigued by what I had to say. Then after a few minutes (we were both waiting for our respective rides), his eyes darted down (in such an abrupt way). And from there on, he spoke to me about the virtues of education while leering at my chest. I'd much rather a man just come out and say, "you have a nice body" than stare like a little boy in a toy store. You're a grown man, act like it!!! Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 Yes Ocean-blue I know what you mean. Many times I have had men I work with talk to me about serious work related issues while staring "downwards" every minute or two. I just think WTF their mind should be on other things. Link to post Share on other sites
Author someone2 Posted September 24, 2007 Author Share Posted September 24, 2007 I hate it. There have been instances when I had the urge to slap the man in question and ask him how he'd like it if I stared his crotch down. Of course, I say nothing and smile awkwardly. I always feel disappointed when a guy does this. It's like, "Hey ****er, my face is UP here!" I remember having this really nice conversation with a guy I used to work with. We discussed our majors and why we enjoy them. He sat there, looking intrigued by what I had to say. Then after a few minutes (we were both waiting for our respective rides), his eyes darted down (in such an abrupt way). And from there on, he spoke to me about the virtues of education while leering at my chest. I'd much rather a man just come out and say, "you have a nice body" than stare like a little boy in a toy store. You're a grown man, act like it!!! Hmmm... I wonder what your opinion will be when I start the sequel to this thread... "What goes through a girl's mind when she catches a guy masturbating to pics of her" (based on a true story... Fortunately, I wasn't part of it!) Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 Well I am very used to it, been happening since I was about 15 so I have learnt not to be offended. I have actually found other (straight) women are more offensive, like if they dont have larger breasts they try to make me feel bad about having them. I can't control these things growing! I can't help they attached themselves to me To be honest though, if the guy is hot I take it as a compliment. If he's a 50 year old balding, fat man then I am creeped out Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 I have to say, this thread is quite amusing. Once, while I was on the subway, I was curious to see how a man would handle a taste of his own medication. So after he stared me down... I sat there (he was standing up). I began to look at his crotch (I have to say, I took absolutely no pleasure in this). And there he stood, amused at first. And then, I could see discomfort beginning to settle in. He shifted around, looked to see if anyone else was witness to this affront to his personal space. I sat there, completely determined to see my "experiment" through. The poor guy squirmed and looked so completely violated. I would have love to know what was going through his mind. I left the train with a big ass grin on my face. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 Oh I did this with one sleazy guy at work. It was too funny. I started staring obviously at his crotch and he started shifting in his seat then actually attempted to cover his crotch with his hands Link to post Share on other sites
Illicit Angel Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 I have to say, this thread is quite amusing. Once, while I was on the subway, I was curious to see how a man would handle a taste of his own medication. So after he stared me down... I sat there (he was standing up). I began to look at his crotch (I have to say, I took absolutely no pleasure in this). And there he stood, amused at first. And then, I could see discomfort beginning to settle in. He shifted around, looked to see if anyone else was witness to this affront to his personal space. I sat there, completely determined to see my "experiment" through. The poor guy squirmed and looked so completely violated. I would have love to know what was going through his mind. I left the train with a big ass grin on my face. Hahahaha that is exactly what i do!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 Oh I did this with one sleazy guy at work. It was too funny. I started staring obviously at his crotch and he started shifting in his seat then actually attempted to cover his crotch with his hands Yup, the shifting around is hilarious. If only more women thought like us! Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 Oh I did this with one sleazy guy at work. It was too funny. I started staring obviously at his crotch and he started shifting in his seat then actually attempted to cover his crotch with his hands hahahaha I've caught myself staring before. Especially when I visit the pool. Someone is always wearing a speedo. Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 You know what's even worse than staring a guy's crotch down? Starting at his man boobies. And by man boobies I don't mean a nicely chiseled upper body... I mean MAN BOOBIES (George Costanza anyone?). Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 Oh Lord, I honestly couldn't do the crotch watch or the upper body stare, if the guy was rude looking. I commend you ladies for your ability to swallow revulsion over the big, sweaty guy who stares without remorse. Hats off to ya'!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 In my haste to be funny, I made a typo. Hehe... I meant STARING. Not starting. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 24, 2007 Share Posted September 24, 2007 It depends. If you talking to a guy and they keep looking down and not at your face! Hello! I am up here! But if it's just like someone walking by and you see them catching a glance, then hey, guys will be guys. I know they are nice aren't they?! Though I have caught the guy I am dating staring at them (not while talking, while making out and so on) and has mentioned how much he likes them! LOL Link to post Share on other sites
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