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Old 11th March 2019, 11:15 PM   #16
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Originally Posted by Autumn Sunflower View Post
as I don't want to lose a friend but she didn't really respond and went out last night without inviting me and she always invites me and vice versa.
(I know she is allowed to go out without inviting me but what I am trying to say that normally it doesn't happen).
Today, I tried again but she didn't really respond. My best friend told me she thinks I need to stop trying...
Her friendship is conditional. You've already lost her because she only wants to hear YES.
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Old 11th March 2019, 11:28 PM   #17
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Autumn, I wouldn't have done it the first time and it would have been ok with me to lose a friendship with someone who expected me to do what she's asking. I also would never ask such a favor of anyone.
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Old 12th March 2019, 8:51 PM   #18
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This woman sounds like she's using you. Are you even being compensated for watching her pet?

As an insomniac, this is an easy NO from me. Sleep is huge. She can pay to have her pet boarded or have a house sitter who doesn't mind watching the pet.
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