Liquinn Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Hi. There was a girl who was in a hostel with another guy and she, him and someone I know (another guy) spoke but she didn't talk to me. Seems to me we didn't get on (personality wise) - or so it seems... Why do I hate her? Maybe due to a different personality or something? I guess we can't get on with everyone. Thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 relevance? Good question. Why DO you hate her....? Sure we can't get on with everyone but - hate? I don't even.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 I didn't enjoy her personality one bit. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 I didn't like her as well to be honest... I've not felt this way in quite some time. I'm glad I never have to see her again. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Yeah, but that's no reason to 'hate'.... I just don't get the intensity of such an emotion for someone you don't even know and will in all likelihood never meet again.... Personality clashes usually manifest over a period of time, not in such a short one.... I think you were jealous. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 Yeah, but that's no reason to 'hate'.... I just don't get the intensity of such an emotion for someone you don't even know and will in all likelihood never meet again.... Personality clashes usually manifest over a period of time, not in such a short one.... I think you were jealous. But how come she spoke to someone I knew? Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Mentally and emotionally healthy people don't hate anyone. Hate is pathology. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 But how come she spoke to someone I knew? Why shouldn't she? What did they talk about? And why do you care, exactly? Pay attention to Satu's post, BTW.... Hatred is both excessive and irrational, here. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 Ahh well. I just wondered why me and her didn't converse. There has to be a reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Ahh well. I just wondered why me and her didn't converse. There has to be a reason. Maybe she picked up on your 'hate' vibe. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 Maybe she picked up on your 'hate' vibe. What do you mean? Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 What do you mean? What I said needs no explanation. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 Ahh well. I just wondered why me and her didn't converse. There has to be a reason. (She and I). When you hate someone for absolutely no reason on the planet, why would they even give you the time of day? Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpybutfun Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 I don't think hate is the word you are searching for here. G Link to post Share on other sites
Author Liquinn Posted July 13, 2015 Author Share Posted July 13, 2015 She had no obligation to talk to me... weird how I can discuss fetishes with people online yet in person sometimes mounts to nothing at all. "Hate" is the wrong word.. "not keen on" is better. Link to post Share on other sites
Clarence_Boddicker Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Why so sensitive bro? Link to post Share on other sites
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